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Old Sep 27, 2017, 07:49 PM
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Sounds like you both have different priorities and want different things.

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Old Sep 27, 2017, 07:54 PM
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Sounds like you both have different priorities and want different things.
Someone else warned me ahead of time that she was going to get weirdly attached. We both had already agreed this wasn't a relationship but just seeing how things would go... To have fun. Oh well. Win some, lose some. I have no regrets. One of the best days of my life anyway.
Hmm. I could be getting a bit manic?
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Old Sep 27, 2017, 07:57 PM
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Someone else warned me ahead of time that she was going to get weirdly attached. We both had already agreed this wasn't a relationship but just seeing how things would go... To have fun. Oh well. Win some, lose some. I have no regrets. One of the best days of my life anyway.
Hmm. I could be getting a bit manic?
"weirdly attached"? I feel for her. Guess I'm weird. It really sounds like you both just wanted different things.
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Old Sep 27, 2017, 09:49 PM
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Manic !? Are you Bipolar ?

I agree wanting different things is more likely the deal with her.

The gym lady ? If it's just a hit it and go for both that's okay too if your into that kinda deal.

I do hope if you are BP and get hypersexual that you make sure to protect yourself and any lady friends.

If you are Bipolar there is a great forum for it.
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Old Sep 28, 2017, 06:33 AM
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Manic !? Are you Bipolar ?

I agree wanting different things is more likely the deal with her.

The gym lady ? If it's just a hit it and go for both that's okay too if your into that kinda deal.

I do hope if you are BP and get hypersexual that you make sure to protect yourself and any lady friends.

If you are Bipolar there is a great forum for it.
Yep, Bipolar 1. Yep, I'm in that forum. Yep, she apparently wanted more than she let on. Yep, I'm using protection. I slept far more last night than topical onset of mania at about 8.5 hours. I guess that's just the way it is. I won't complain about it, but I did tell myself the gym woman wouldn't happen again. I guess I compromised myself a little there, but the woman I recently met has been messaging me all night. I've not responded, but just turned my phone off. There's only going forward. I don't really want to date her at all now, because of how much she flipped out.
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Old Sep 28, 2017, 06:33 AM
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Yep, Bipolar 1. Yep, I'm in that forum. Yep, she apparently wanted more than she let on. Yep, I'm using protection. I slept far more last night than topical onset of mania at about 8.5 hours. I guess that's just the way it is. I won't complain about it, but I did tell myself the gym woman wouldn't happen again. I guess I compromised myself a little there, but the woman I recently met has been messaging me all night. I've not responded, but just turned my phone off. There's only going forward. I don't really want to date her at all now, because of how much she flipped out.
Topical 6 onset"
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Old Sep 28, 2017, 06:37 AM
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Old Sep 28, 2017, 07:17 AM
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Some women (and men) are uncomfortable with their dating partners having more than one sex partner at a time. Different dating and attachment styles. It sounds to me like you and her may not have had a conversation about that. If you did tell her you're having sex with other women, she said that's ok, and then got upset, well, that's on her. But just from the things you said, it sounds like that's not the case. If it was the case, it sounds like she didn't know herself well enough, and was very turned off by what happened. Her texting you all night well, I don't know what to say about that. It does sound like she got attached (which in my opinion, is still not "weird." Maybe it is to you though), or is trying to fix something. Either way, you're done now, so just move on.
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Old Sep 28, 2017, 07:46 AM
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Some women (and men) are uncomfortable with their dating partners having more than one sex partner at a time. Different dating and attachment styles. It sounds to me like you and her may not have had a conversation about that. If you did tell her you're having sex with other women, she said that's ok, and then got upset, well, that's on her. But just from the things you said, it sounds like that's not the case. If it was the case, it sounds like she didn't know herself well enough, and was very turned off by what happened. Her texting you all night well, I don't know what to say about that. It does sound like she got attached (which in my opinion, is still not "weird." Maybe it is to you though), or is trying to fix something. Either way, you're done now, so just move on.
Yep. Moving on. In one of the messages she said "I finally found someone I could truly fall in love with and you did this to me." She's blocked at the carrier level now. She did know we weren't going to be serious. I made that clear up front. I'm not looking for a serious anything with anyone. I gotta watch who I compliment from now on. I thought it was just the rudeness I had to watch. O.o
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Oh my, she pulling the love card already?

Follow your instincts, and this doesn't like a situation you want to get caught up in.
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Old Sep 30, 2017, 05:53 PM
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Oh my, she pulling the love card already?

Follow your instincts, and this doesn't like a situation you want to get caught up in.
I did follow my instincts, but passed them by as I hauled butt for the hills. I am not up for saying that about anyone.
I told this woman I went to high school with the entire story, when she asked. I told her that I'm not going to live a life of safety, but I'm being cautious where I need to be. I also told her how she has made me feel every time I've ever seen her. I told her that she is the most enchanting creature I've ever met. But, I don't think it's romantic feelings I've ever had toward her. She just always has my eyes wide open and ears listening. I regret all the time I didn't tell her and all the years we'd lost contact. I wasn't flirting, it's just true. Is that weird?
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