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Oct 16, 2017, 04:33 PM
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I’m not sure if this post is relationship, sexual, emotions, personality place or what.
I’m feeling GOOD! And I’m embarrassed to admit, it’s because my h and I had sex. I wish I understood what is really at play here: this is the strangest cycle of abuse or something unnamed. Right now, I feel like the depression has lifted. I feel fine and functional. I am just cherishing this feeling. I feel loving toward him and thankful we are still together. It’s miraculous this happens. It’s happened before, too. As good as I feel now, I feel ten times worse when things get bad. I think this is codependent relationship then maybe... I’m just reporting that I am mentally and emotionally feeling 100% different! I’m not sure what to make of it, and I am humbled and perplexed. 
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#2
Oct 16, 2017, 05:11 PM
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Musta been more than just sex,it must have been really good sex!
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#3
Oct 16, 2017, 05:27 PM
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Love is the drug
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#4
Oct 16, 2017, 05:48 PM
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Endorphines! It's like going for a run
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Oct 17, 2017, 04:43 AM
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 Enjoy the high! One of the reasons I am still married is that I am hooked.The Things We Do For Love Too many broken hearts have fallen in the river Too many lonely souls have drifted out to sea You lay your bets and then you pay the price The things we do for love, the things we do for love Communication is the problem to the answer You've got her number and your hand is on the phone The weather's turned and all the lines are down The things we do for love, the things we do for love Like walking in the rain and the snow When there's nowhere to go And you're feelin' like a part of you is dying And you're looking for the answer in her eyes You think you're gonna break up Then she says she wants to make up Ooh you made me love you Ooh you've got a way Ooh you had me crawling up the wall Like walking in the rain and the snow When there's nowhere to go And you're feelin' like a part of you is dying And you're looking for the answer in her eyes You think you're gonna break up Then she says she wants to make up Ooh you made me love you Ooh you've got a way Ooh you had me crawling up the wall A compromise would surely help the situation Agree to disagree but disagree to part When after all it's just a compromise of The things we do for love, the things we do for love |
| TishaBuv
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Oct 17, 2017, 06:08 AM
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LMAO guys!
This whole thing, this cycle with me having PTSD meltdowns, revolves around getting laid.  I have been describing it to doctors and to everyone who will listen. No one could come up with a diagnosis or a solution. Yes, countless songs have been written about it, so it must be a thing! Remember in the old days, they said the woman had “hysteria”? I’m mortified to say that’s what it is. But, aside from the release, there’s a whole cycle of him neglecting me and ‘not turning me on’, then I get depressed and angry, then meltdown, then I finally initiate the sex, then I feel better, then repeat.
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Oct 17, 2017, 06:12 AM
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It is a humbling and humiliating experience.
The simple truth is HE doesn’t change. He doesn’t turn me on, doesn’t know how, has no ‘throw down’. (Only sometimes he does). This part is still confusing to me. Is it ME who needs to be emotionally beaten before I can muster up the gumption to initiate the sex?
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Oct 17, 2017, 06:14 AM
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Oct 17, 2017, 06:16 AM
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Oct 17, 2017, 06:17 AM
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Quote:
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Oct 17, 2017, 06:18 AM
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My friend, who doesn’t even know the extent I post here, calls me Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the City.
Yikes, I am Sex and the World on PC! 
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Oct 17, 2017, 07:43 AM
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Oct 17, 2017, 09:03 AM
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Just a thought...maybe you could skip the emotional beat down and go straight for the sex?
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 Eat a live frog for breakfast every morning and nothing worse can happen to you that day! "Ask yourself whether the dream of heaven and greatness should be left waiting for us in our graves - or whether it should be ours here and now and on this earth.” Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged Bipolar type 2 rapid cycling DX 2013 - Seroquel 100 Celexa 20 mg Xanax .5 mg prn Modafanil 100 mg 
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#14
Oct 17, 2017, 03:48 PM
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I might not fully understand the root of the problem, but I can stop the toxicity. What have I been beating myself for??? 
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