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Old Oct 28, 2017, 04:43 AM
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Havnt been able to form new relationships and its been such a long time since I've had one. Seems like all my friends disappeared and there's noone to talk to. Its been hell and can't seem to avoid lonliness and can only feel the miserable depression and rejection. Only thing are meds that help a bit but still can't be cured by medication. Hope anyone else out there that's lonely can get better soon!
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 03:22 PM
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Lonely unable to make relationships
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Old Oct 29, 2017, 02:11 AM
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I think this is a good step. Definitely post on message boards because there are many good people on these at all times.

I have had remarkably lonely points in my life when I went through bad depression. I pushed away countless individuals. Remember that part of the way you feel is how you view the world because of your depression. Your mind is (for the most part) convincing you that there is no one, when there is indeed many. There are a lot of people out there that can relate. Heck, I can, so you can start here.

Take things slow and take care of yourself. Work slowly to develop friendships with others. If you have family, you always will have them. Use them as a launching point to develop friendships with others. If you don't have a therapist, try and initiate a time to see one.
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Old Oct 29, 2017, 04:03 AM
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Sorry you're feeling so lonely. I can definitely relate..
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Old Oct 29, 2017, 03:41 PM
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I can relate and feel for you. I know what you are going thru because I am going thru it all the time here and I am miserable.
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Old Nov 02, 2017, 01:40 PM
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I'm pretty much the same, the only two friends I have are not really available to hang out or share much since one moved abroad recently and one is in a new relationship.
I've always been the friendless one, always on the edge of any circle/group, never the one in a relationship, etc.
It's incredibly lonely and most people can't truly understand how truly unhealthy and painful it is to be this way.

I also think it's like a vicious circle because without friends it's hard to make other friends, both cause you generally meet people through other connections ,and also because you just don't get much of the experience that helps with making good connections.
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Old Nov 03, 2017, 12:25 PM
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I have no friends either. For some reason, I like being alone though. Of course, I wish I could make friends. At my age though most people have their friends and don't bother in making new ones. I don't mind because I am doing what I like. I am happy.
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Old Nov 03, 2017, 12:58 PM
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I like what Entity06 said and others too-i've been there too and i thought at one point i was allergic to people because after i would have a friend over, i would feel sick to my stomach, not just one person, but everybody.
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