I'm not sure if I should keep giving my gf more chances or try to leave

Unfortunately, trust has been broken twice now. You could try and put your foot down again, but clearly she wants to be in contact with this guy on SC, so you would most likely be mistrustful and wanting to snoop again in her phone to see what she's doing. The way I see it, is either you accept that she needs to be in contact with this guy and allow it, or let go, break up and move on.

SC is not just for people to send naked pictures. I know plenty of people who use it as an additional way to keep in touch with their friends.

Yes, although his main point is that his girlfriend has lied twice now about using it, and specifically hid from him that she is in touch again with this guy on there. That's the main point of contention here.

I realize that and have nothing else to add. People have already done a good job at commenting.

(((Hugs))) love your username, btw.

Thank you! Yours is too

This is exactly why transparency doesn't work. One person wants to be controlling and have every detail of their partner's life and then is crushed when she goes behind their back because they want to have a life outside of a relationship.

Could you seriously imagine a life where you couldn't talk to the opposite sex...who is not even interested in the opposite sex? What a pathetic life that would be.

people sometimes lie and hide when they have controlling partners. If she is told not to talk to men, she has to either lie or leave her current partner. It’s unreasonable demand

I don't think the issue is snapchat at all.

I think the issue is insecurity with your gf and this other bi/gay guy.

You have no reason to believe she's been unfaithful to you from the sounds of things?

You did say way earlier on in this thread that she said that she told you that she's reopening snapchat.

As the saying goes, "don't borrow trouble".

As to whether or not she should legitimately have snapchat or not, I don't know. It's going to be a contentious issue, if, she is using it for the purpose of communicating with her family.