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Old Dec 08, 2017, 04:54 PM
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My oldest brother had an affair that had ruined my life because I was being stalked by his mistress who had called my house, my job and drove my home, job, and school. She had tried to run me off the road on more than one occasion. Admitted to the police and the lawyer that she had threaten to harm me because of her obsession with my brother who had remarried to someone who is doing the same thing. No one in my family believe me that I was threaten but the new girl who was having affair before the marriage. Now he having another affair. I keep getting attacked. I lost the right to see my niece and nephew because my sister in law got the divorce free by false allegation of sexual abuse.

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Old Dec 09, 2017, 08:53 PM
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It sounds like you have gone to the Police about your brother's mistress's behavior. Good job. Keep them informed of anything that she does to you.

How well do you get along with your brother's ex-wife?
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Old Dec 10, 2017, 03:39 PM
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It sounds like you have gone to the Police about your brother's mistress's behavior. Good job. Keep them informed of anything that she does to you.

How well do you get along with your brother's ex-wife?
I can't even see my sister in law because she had it fixed where I am banned from her home or seeing my niece and nephew. This has hurt me in more than one way. I hadn't seen since 2001 back in August. She lied and said one my nephew had a doctor appointment but she took a lot of bag with her. I suspect she moving out then but I thought I was being paranoid. Before she left she had turn all of my coworker against me. I had quit my job.
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Old Dec 10, 2017, 03:41 PM
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I can't even see my sister in law because she had it fixed where I am banned from her home or seeing my niece and nephew. This has hurt me in more than one way. I hadn't seen since 2001 back in August. She lied and said one my nephew had a doctor appointment but she took a lot of bag with her. I suspect she moving out then but I thought I was being paranoid. Before she left she had turn all of my coworker against me. I had quit my job.
My brother mistress still harrrased me and there is nothing that I can legally do about it. One of the pi said that the police and the lawyer broke the law. The state crime doesn't investigate sexual abuse.
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Old Dec 10, 2017, 05:59 PM
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I'm sorry you had to go through this. I know it's hard to lose contact with nieces and nephews. Unfortunately there isn't much you can do about it unless your brother does something to change the custody agreement or they reach age 18 and can choose for themselves to have a relationship with you or not.

Is she currently doing anything to harm you?
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Old Dec 12, 2017, 11:01 AM
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I'm sorry you had to go through this. I know it's hard to lose contact with nieces and nephews. Unfortunately there isn't much you can do about it unless your brother does something to change the custody agreement or they reach age 18 and can choose for themselves to have a relationship with you or not.

Is she currently doing anything to harm you?
My brother won't fight her in court. She had brain wash my niece and nephew who were molested by someone else at their school. She still has banned the last contact we had my other brother she had allowed to contact but then she had yelled at told him that she didn't want us near her kid and that she want us to stay away. The only reason my other brother was allowed to see them was because my niece and nephew argue with her. I hate her for what she did and she has ruin my life. Now I have to explain what happen for every job interview I got to because of what she had done to me.
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