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Old Feb 17, 2018, 04:50 PM
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Mom said take your stuff and move down to his place. But you can't live here during the week and with him on the weekends. So get out or break up because he's not going to offer you the life you want. Well i thought about it and though its super hard for me to break up with a man i still love and know i will never see again i did break up.

A 29 year old is after him, he wants more kids, she is a professional so has money. He's 49 says he doesn't like her but I know that's his next girlfriend maybe even wife she has his kid she's his for 18 years or death whichever comes first.

I'm heartbroken really. I had to choose whats best for me not what feels best in the moment.
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 04:56 PM
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WISE decision. I have found that the wise decisions are the ones that make us feel the worst in the moment but much better later on.
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 05:04 PM
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I am glad you are done with him. And trust me no one decent is after him. He just wants you to be jealous. No way a professional 29-year old is going after broke 49-year old who can’t even get a car and doesn’t even work full time plus isn’t even that nice. And she’ll have kids with him? Please.

Wise to forget about him. You can do better
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 05:16 PM
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She was all over him when I was with him at the bar. When I left to go to the bathroom I came out and she was all flirting with him and didn't leave despite my presence. Than she showed up at his farm the other day. A farmer friend told him she was looking for him. I know that woman likes him and he doesn't use protection so she'll end up pregnant.
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 05:20 PM
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What Divine said. You're better off. They both sound like idiots actually (her, for being into him, and him, for being himself).
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 05:36 PM
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She was all over him when I was with him at the bar. When I left to go to the bathroom I came out and she was all flirting with him and didn't leave despite my presence. Than she showed up at his farm the other day. A farmer friend told him she was looking for him. I know that woman likes him and he doesn't use protection so she'll end up pregnant.
This woman sounds trashy just like him. Him not using protection doesn’t mean she isn’t using birth control. But actually I recommend you see a doctor ASAP. Him not using protection is dangerous. Make sure you check yourself for STD. Now.
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 06:33 PM
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This woman sounds trashy just like him. Him not using protection doesn’t mean she isn’t using birth control. But actually I recommend you see a doctor ASAP. Him not using protection is dangerous. Make sure you check yourself for STD. Now.
I started birth control
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 06:45 PM
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I started birth control
Birth control won’t save you from STD. If he isn’t using protection and isn’t your commited life partner, you need to check yourself for STD. ASAP
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 07:58 PM
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Be glad he is gone , now YOU can focus on becoming independent or at least moving in that direction ? Are you on the list for section 8 housing ?
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 08:54 PM
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Yes I'm on the list for a section 8 apartments. Long wait though.
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