letting go

I finally thought about the way that I treated my wife for so many years. I took more than any person should and really did not give back. Now she is not sure that she wants to go through the whole thing again. It makes me sad that she thinks that I am not in love with her, but I am making an effort to send her little notes in email on her personal page and everything else I can think of. I want her to know that she is the woman I married because I am in love with her not because I just wanted to get married. Any advice?

take her on some dates!

Good idea

maybe take her to some 'special places' from your younger days too when you were going out.

jin x

Definitely go back to the basics. What did you do to woo her back in the day? What is her favorite thing to do with you? What is her favorite meal? How about cooking for her and renting a romantic movie (or whatever you both enjoy)? Did you listen more to what she had to say about things? What dreams did you both have of doing something special together but never had a chance to do? How about a walk in the park or go for a massage together? If you have kids, how about offering to take the kids so she can have some "me" time? Just some ideas....hope you find something that might work

Hugsss
sabby

oh and don't push hard. take it slow. things didn't go sour overnight and it won't happen overnight to go back up. give her time.

What am I old now Jinn...Yeah I know I am.

you know what I mean lol when you were 'courting' god I sound so old lmao

LOL I knew what you meant just having a little fun.

good, only as old as ya feel anyway, like i feel about 90 now

Whatever, get some rest and things will look much brighter in the morn. That is usually when I feel 90. Gnight