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Old Nov 04, 2007, 01:43 PM
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Okay so theres these two girls who Ive been friends with for a long time and they both want to be my girlfriend and I maen i have feelings for both of them but i dont wanna choose and one get mad at me, not to mention of these girls is pregnant by her ex boyfriend(which I can live with) but I dont know what to do!! someone please help
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Old Nov 05, 2007, 12:30 AM
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how old are you?
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Old Nov 05, 2007, 07:58 AM
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Who says you have to choose at this time?? If neither one hits you as "the one" then why put all of you into a position of hurt, jealousy and possibly loosing both of them as friends?

How about continuing your friendships and wait and see what happens? There is nothing that says you have to make any kind of decision right now because I get the impression you are not really ready to do so. There is lots of time to figure things out like how you feel about either one. Give yourself and them the time to do that HUGE PROBLEM!!!!

Wishing you well!

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Old Nov 05, 2007, 09:41 AM
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Don't be with either or you'll destroy every realtionship involved including yours with them. It's easy to be with a pregnant girl too, but it's very difficult to be with a mother. I think you need to think this through and consider everything involved.
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Old Nov 05, 2007, 11:45 PM
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I think honesty is your best option. If you are not sure, don't pretend that you are. Be as clear and as honesty as possible about how you feel towards them. Above all let them both know that you are still "playing the field" and that they need to decide if that is OK with them or not. If the one girl insists on a monogamous relationship and you are not ready for that, then you need to tell explicitly her so.
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Old Nov 05, 2007, 11:48 PM
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dude, you are a freshman in high school, it isn't important. An issue today is forgotten by next semester, so lighten up and have fun. The reality is that you aren't going to like settle down and marry either one of these girls, and there are other girls in your future. Just have fun, and don't knock anybody up yourself.
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