Family member treats me like a .......

Technically, they own the house I live in and because I'm at work during the week they cook on the days I work so I don't cook when I'm already exhausted from a manual job. I cook for them on weekends, that's the arrangement we have.

Maybe that arrangement really isn't good for you. Is the cost of having them treat you like this worth it or could yiu just get some really simple healthy meals you could just heat up for yourself when you get home from work.

I have to eat after long days working on my farm all day or volunteering long hard days at the horse park. I have found really good quality food I can either heat up in 12 minutes in a fry pan on top of my stove or microwave. I also cook casseroles on the weekend (easy ones) & heat them up for my meals during the week. Honestly if my family was treating me that way I fould figure our a way to fend for myself.

Hmmmmm, they are cooking for you & making what yiu eat throughout the week & they ate commenting about your weight....then they need to rethink what they are cooking. Bottom line.....is it really worth this aggrevation to you?

Just want to reiterate what Nicole said: this is verbal abuse. And it would be verbal abuse even if you were "overweight". Your family has no right to shame you for your weight or make you skip meals (!). That's incredibly cruel of them, and unhealthy for you.

It's the comments they make that trigger me into skipping meals. If I eat breakfast, I don't eat lunch and if I eat breakfast I skip lunch. The meals they cook I eat. idk if this makes more sense now.

I'm struggling with bad thoughts today. Seems nobody irl listens to me.

I'm damned whatever I do. Nothing is good enough.

I'm struggling with bad thoughts today. Seems nobody irl listens to me.

I'm damned whatever I do. Nothing is good enough.