Crushing on my coach!

So you are infatuated with a teacher/coach. It is not uncommon. It will pass.

But it’s indecent of you to pursue a married man regardless how excited you are to spend time with him or how attracted you are. Common decency dictates for you to stop this.

Being new to the world of dating and relationships has nothing to do with pursuing married men. If you want to date, it’s wise to go for single people, not married. If he is leading you on, then he is not a decent man anyways so why pursue him?

I am not sure what you are really asking. I doubt anyone on here will advice you to go for a married man. We can’t stop you but we aren’t going to encourage so what exactly are you asking?

I recommend to seek therapy to figure out how to deal with it

Yes, I know that it's indecent...
I think my original thoughts were, "what am I supposed to do"? I haven't felt like this for anyone before.
I think I pretty much got the advice I needed... Basically to leave him alone and let the crush run its course....

I'm definitely going to talk to my therapist about this.
As much as I'd love to, I am not going to ruin his marriage.
I don't know if I made myself clear, I was kind of confused when I made my OP. But yeah, I was basically just wondering what I am supposed to do.

But I think everyone here pretty much gave me the advice I needed to hear, which is, "Don't seek out a relationship, don't get involved, control your own reactions to him, etc."

I don't want to be indecent. I don't want to be a home-wrecker and I am not asking anyone to justify my emotions or tell me to go after him. I just wanted to know what I am supposed to do with my feelings towards him.. I've never felt this way before for anyone.

I don't know HOW to "get over" him... I don't know what to do with my feelings. I got the advice I needed though, so I mean... I'll just be repeating myself again.

I think I'll just have this thread closed.

I think it is mostly about knowing your own values & sticking with them no matter what anyone else tries to lead you to thinking....& not being wishy washy about them.....stand firm no matter what anyone else is doing ir saying.

I thought about maybe seek a different acting coach. One who is not so distracting. What do you think about this, Esmme?

I thought about it, KnitChick,
But I already paid for the classes and there are no refunds.