[Honestly Looking]

I'm 47 years old single mom. I was in a relationship 4 4 years. It ended about a 1yr ago. In the beginning of the relationship he swept me off my feet. At that time I was a successful nurse I had my own place, everything was great. When I met him he moved in quickly is very attentive very sweet and kind. About a year later he slowly begin mistreating me mentally. The first time I was kicked out of our apartment and slept in my car. He asked me back I went. A month later I was kicked out again. I believe he's a narcissist I have now lost everything. My job, my apartment and my son. He came back about a week ago he messaged me and asked me to go out I date and I did I went on 2 dates with him.

I have since broken off of courses attitude was worse how much I need to support him and I was just crazy all about him things. I need help getting my life back together.

[Bill3]

I’m very sorry that this all happened.

How did you lose your job? Are you working now?

[MickeyCheeky]

I'm sorry this happened to you... some people are disgusting Are you looking for a job right now?

Wait... I'm confused. How did you lose your job and your son? The relationship sounds very unhealthy and he sounds abusive. I would steer clear of him entirely and get your life back.

[Fuzzybear]

Some people are disgusting grrrrrrr

I’m sorry you’ve gone through this. I hope you’re able to start getting back on your feet. You’ve been through a lot.

[Honestly Looking]

Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

I'm sorry this happened to you... some people are disgusting Are you looking for a job right now?

when he kicked me out of the apartment I was in my car for a couple days until I was able to find a place and with the depression I ended up losing my job. I'm sorry for the late response. I'm looking for a job now. It seems whenever I get on my feet again he pops back in and I'm trying to be strong enough not to even answer those calls.

[Honestly Looking]

Originally Posted by golden_eve

Wait... I'm confused. How did you lose your job and your son? The relationship sounds very unhealthy and he sounds abusive. I would steer clear of him entirely and get your life back.

thank you. My son actually called my ex-husband and told him that I was going to be moving out of the house and he came and picked them up. In the midst of me being so distraught cuz it was so sudden one day he's happy and the next day I'm kicked out there's no fighting. It was just strange. I was not able to hold my job I was that bad everything that I was so sure of was just pulled out from under my feet. I think I'm a little late for the blog. I hope I can get back to this again I do need some help.

[Honestly Looking]

I'm sorry you guys don't think I'm late for the thread. I really need help with us and maybe post it. From my understanding a narcissist they come in and they sweep you off your feet they mirror what you are. It's like they can love you like nobody else and then one day to the next is when they start taking away everything you thought that you were. Self-esteem, Independence basically what you have become without them. And they do not do much of same as they give a lot of the silent treatment. Which is basically just telling you to be quiet for eternity. I wish I would have known this was going to start I'm sorry you guys I'm going to try to repost it thank you. And you go for a long time it's been for me almost here and a half but he still comes back around you go for a long time and sure of yourself and you wonder where everything went.

[lady411]

Thank you so much for sharing. I've been married to my husband for only 4 yrs and I am beginning to see that he might be narcissistic as well as abusive. He grew up with a very abusive father. He doesn't see how he is mirroring a lot of his father's behaviors. As much as I love him and want help for him, if he doesn't admit it to himself, he will not change. I need to focus on my children and myself. I am reaching out for help from all directions.
Good for you that you have a good supportive son.

Originally Posted by Honestly Looking

I'm sorry you guys don't think I'm late for the thread. I really need help with us and maybe post it. From my understanding a narcissist they come in and they sweep you off your feet they mirror what you are. It's like they can love you like nobody else and then one day to the next is when they start taking away everything you thought that you were. Self-esteem, Independence basically what you have become without them. And they do not do much of same as they give a lot of the silent treatment. Which is basically just telling you to be quiet for eternity. I wish I would have known this was going to start I'm sorry you guys I'm going to try to repost it thank you. And you go for a long time it's been for me almost here and a half but he still comes back around you go for a long time and sure of yourself and you wonder where everything went.

Can you get on some type of government insurance and get some counseling? Counseling would help you at this time. You will need to get back on your feet, but also deal with the abuse.

[Ladyfabulosity]

Some of what you describe I have experienced too. They sweep you off your feet with a lot of attention. Mine too tried to move in with me but I said it was too soon..I think they prey on women who are more successful then they are and can manipulate you to do what best suits them. I am undergoing the silent treatment from one who got what he wanted. I am sorry you experienced this. I understand.