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#1
Jul 25, 2004, 07:45 PM
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I've been married for almost a year now and I've been with my wife for almost 5 years. I have a problem with talking about how I feel with my wife do too some embarassment I have with speaking about the size of my penis. Go ahead and laugh get it out of the way. OK now that's over. I feel like I don't please her properly in bed. She says she has no problem with our sex life but I believe otherwise. I've always had this thing about myself. I hate my penis. Don't get me wrong I understand that I'm a man and do not wish too be anything else. I flat out just wish it was BIGGER. I've learned to live wih what I have but when I look at myself in the mirror I think less of myself as a man. Meaning I'm ashamed of what I got . This really bothers me all day everyday. Then I find out about a video tape she made about 6 years ago before I knew her. On this tape she and an old boyfriend were having sex and It seems too me she enjoyed that more than I have ever made her feel during sex. Now every time she wants too have sex I am completely turned off with this feeling of WHAT FOR? Ican't make love too u like that! So what do I do , and how do I talk too her please help. ASAP
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Jul 26, 2004, 10:30 AM
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loco1--I think that you need to change your focus. Concentrate on how much you love your wife and not on your body parts. She will see the change in your attitude. Concentrate on what is right with you and your relationship instead of what is wrong.
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Jul 26, 2004, 02:03 PM
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Loco,
As a woman I can tell you that there are tons of factors that are including in making us feel good during sex. While penis size is a factor it is not a big one. Things like foreplay and your attitude toward her during sex is VERY important..even more so then size. If you are strong and confident with her in showing her how you feel you will make her feel good. If you seem timid or upset..she will not get nearly as much out of it. Jessica <font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>
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Jul 26, 2004, 04:14 PM
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i agree with everyone!its not just the size, its the intimacy between the two of you that you should concentrate on!
does your wife see it as a problem? cuddles! jamesie! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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