When Do You End A Friendship?

Dec 11, 2018, 10:49 AM

I admit it that I'm not good at dealing with loneliness for long periods of time either. But I will not hang onto "dead weight" as they say just to not be alone. That can do more harm to you. I'm not saying someone's friends should be your punching bag and just to complain all the time, but if they tell me what's their issues and I listen to them, then I just expect that in return.

I had a former friend say they got tired of hearing me complain, but I never once complained about her complaining about stuff, so I ended it and I'm better off. She must not have liked it that I spoke up to her, too bad I say!

Dec 11, 2018, 11:11 AM

most of my friendships (or the ones that don't end because of MI) end because the person can't accept that I don't like what they like.
from big things like religion, to small things like I don't like their Favourite artist or movie

sometimes it's just a personality clash too

Dec 11, 2018, 11:13 AM

ah, because they've borrowed something of mine and broken it

that too

and most of the time I'm very unforgiving, so usually when I say it's ended, it's ended

Dec 12, 2018, 11:39 AM

Believe me, the ex friend that I'm referring to in my last posts had alot of drama in her family and I never once complained about it until the very end when I had enough of it and had to finally speak up to her about what was bothering me.

She said this to me "Things are not going to change, maybe its better to move on". She did say once she would be willing to talk, yeah and that never happened. Oh well.

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