[AceRimmer]

I had 3 cousins. One died and I didn't go to the funeral - it was 2000 miles away in FL. Then another cousin died and my remaining cousin didn't tell me. Now he didn't send me a Christmas card. I'm wondering if he is dead. But I checked the obits and didn't see him or his wife. Maybe he's really sick. Or his wife. I didn't send him a card. I don't really know him. He's just the last relative I have left.

[healingme4me]

Is it possible they just didn't get around to cards, this year? I had a couple of years after my mom passed that I could only focus on what I could focus on.
Can you text or call them?

[WishfulThinker66]

Did you send your own greeting card to them?

In my own case I have been receiving fewer and fewer Xmas cards as each year goes by. Still, I make every opportunity to make contact - card or no card - with those that matter to me.

It might be prudent for you to contact them first instead of waiting for them to do the same.

[sarahsweets]

I kinda feel like if anyone gets mad and uses not sending you a card to get the message across then its their problem. There are better ways to communicate.

[AceRimmer]

Originally Posted by WishfulThinker66

Did you send your own greeting card to them?

In my own case I have been receiving fewer and fewer Xmas cards as each year goes by. Still, I make every opportunity to make contact - card or no card - with those that matter to me.

It might be prudent for you to contact them first instead of waiting for them to do the same.

It's kind of late now. But I guess a happy New Year card sent on the 2nd isn't that late. I hope no one is dead. Or near death. Or in a coma.

[divine1966]

If you are concerned if they are ok, call them or send a letter.