[salukigirl]

i dont get how guys can't see this. i guess it happens with girls too. my friend is 26 almost 27. so 19 seems a little young anyways. but anyways - he has gone back and forth with this girl so much. one day he loves her the next day she makes him feel like crap. she is his number 1 on myspace and i looked at her profile. first things first - total attention *****. almost every picture of her is with her boobs popping out and trying to make herself look like a ****. she has absolutely no girls as her friends - all guys. and tons of other guys, in addition to my friend, are posting comments about how much they miss her with kisses, how hot she is etc... so i have this feeling that he is going in head over heels for this girl that jsut wants attention from any guy she can get. i want to slap him and say "girls that you want to date dont do this crap!" but i dont think he would listen. plus i know its not my place to butt in anyways. but i really really dont want to see him get hurt. he already has such little trust in women from past times and this girl seems no different. am i just reading into things way too much? seems to me that all she wants is for people to look at her and doesnt really have an interest in my friend. she is constantly hitting on and flirting with guys all the time while my friend sits there wondering if she likes him. grrr....

[heyjoe]

never underestimate the hypnotic power of popping out boobs

[salukigirl]

lol i knew i should have put this in the womens only forum.

[_Hope_]

As much as you might want to protect your friend, I don't think you can convince him that she isn't right for him. I think those things we have to learn on out own, Give him a warning about her If you feel you must, then stand back let him make his own decision and be ready to help pick up the pieces if necessary

Linda

[youOme]

Be honest and tell him what you see, tell him it's an outside perspective but it sees what he cannot. If it were me he'd know what I felt by now...this is what friends are supposed to do. Whether he listened or not is his decision.