[matheusgrossi]

Hi, I’m Matthew 19 years old.

Since I was very young I had this desire to develop a serious and meaningful relationship (I really don’t know why), but it seems they’re not possible, I used to like to talk about life questions and philosophy, and have meaningful conversations.

Normally I can’t talk to girls of my age because they’re interested in other subjects, which is fine because people are different.

But sometimes I feel no one is compatible, and for me this is creepy, when I think about having a relationship and in the future, a family I just think it’s not possible at all.

I’m the kind of guy who are not superficial, I prefer deep and meaningful things.

I met a girl 2 years ago, And we used to have this meaningful conversations, but it looked like her friend was more trustable than me, after me and her friend argue, then she disappeared.

I miss her a lot, I can’t stop thinking about her, mainly at night, my stomache hurts and during the night this feeling about her makes me very angry.

I don’t want estou be attractive to a 1000 woman, just one, that likes the way I am.

I don’t feel hope for it to end well, must be my age and lack of experience.

Can you guys help me?

[matheusgrossi]

I don’t know if I’m a weird guy in my social interactions, I just came to a point where I don’t know what the problem is.

I have been feeling fear of interacting with others

Hello matheusgrossi. Thank you for sharing your truth. That's not easy for anyone to do so you should feel proud of yourself. Dating and relationships are not easy...for you or for anyone else. Including me and I'm a lot older than you

You could mention some particular relationship issues here if you feel like they are recurring trends for you. We could try to help you think it through on PC. Otherwise, would you be open to discussing with a therapist? That has really helped me at different points in my life.

Remember that not having a wonderful woman in your life now does NOT mean that you'll never find her! There's always time and hope. Sorry it didn't work out with your previous gf I wish you peace as you work through your loss.

(You don't seem weird to me at all)

Originally Posted by matheusgrossi

Normally I can’t talk to girls of my age because they’re interested in other subjects, which is fine because people are different.

But sometimes I feel no one is compatible, and for me this is creepy, when I think about having a relationship and in the future, a family I just think it’s not possible at all.

I’m the kind of guy who are not superficial, I prefer deep and meaningful things.

You are NOT creepy. You are probably the rare young gentleman that a nice young lady out there is dreaming of. I know, when you are philosophical and deep, sometimes superficial people think that you are eccentric. Well, that's okay. You keep being you and find someone who loves you for who you are.