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Default May 05, 2019 at 09:36 PM
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Last year I wrote about a friend who is a "whiner and complainer" on another thread. I just went back and reread that thread.

Here we are a whole year later. Nothing changed. It only got worse.

What is "new" is I think she is a toxic narcissist. The red flags? She never apologizes, she gaslights me, she is super critical, every single thing is about drama, she vanishes then suddenly re-appears, she continually tries to triangulate, and also tries to separate me from my siblings by making them out to be the arch enemy. On top of that she is drinking while taking anti-depressants.

She sounds awful...but she can also appear as caring, interested, and generous.

I now think she has been using me as narcissistic supply.

How could this have been going on for decades?

I think my own problems served to cause me to become more aware.

It hurts...but maybe I am growing and healing. I just don't want abusive friends in my life.

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