[Verona]

I am in a relationship with him since 7 years. He is nice supported man, and want to marry but there are some issues from which I am feeling so confused to marry him because I am totally in live with him and want the relationship to be happy for life long for both of us and I am so possessive+open minded person. Could he be changed or I should more develop my standards. Below are the point from which I get so much disturb and depressed from a long time.

1.He use to check out other females. Love to check out without hesitation in front of me. when I says that it feels so heartbroken for me he say he is only checking her dress. As same time in pool when we both in swimming pool he check out other girl boobs and says to me lets go there(near her so he could take a nice look of her boobs even she has lesser size than mine) I stopped him he asked me why. This type of cheap behaviour make me so down and confused . He always appreciate me but on this I lost the self esteem.

2.He wants to talk to other females just as friends but not with my female friends, he thinks its need to talk with opposite sex and have contacts so that they can .

3.He told me that he use to have dreams that "he had sex with other beautiful and blond girls but unfortunately caught by me and than he feels guilty".

4.We are in a long term relationship so last night He told me that he with his business partners and friends last night he even don't want to sit with them but his one of friend force him to sit with their company, his friends have the sex with other room with a beautiful prostitute and forced him to do as well as for free, he goes to the prostitute room, and just talked to her when I said why, he said because talking is not bad,abd he is curious to know about her life he and how she use to get in this field. When the prostitute denied to talk to him and only do sex he said he have a lover......so is this true that boys are curious to have talk even when they have beautiful prostitute and provoking for sex..

[KookieJay]

I think if you are having doubts, then this isn't the right time for you to get married yet.

[sarahsweets]

If he is consorting with prostitutes for ANY reason you need to let him go. There is absolutely NO excuse for it.

[Crazy Hitch]

Too many things wrong that you yourself can’t “fix”. He will need to see someone professional.

If it were me, no, I would not marry him right now.

[divine1966]

Absolutely no. Don’t marry this guy neither now nor later. In fact it’s better to stop dating him all together.

[MickeyCheeky]

He's definitely to the point of cheating - if he hasn't already!! Please do yourself a favor and leave him! You deserve MUCH, MUCH better! Please do that... you matter and you are worth it! Allow yourself to take time to grieve the end of the relationship and then move one! There are MUCH better candidates for you out there! I'm SURE of that! Please be kind to yourself and remember that NONE OF THIS is your fault AT ALL! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, @Verona, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones!!

[sarahsweets]

Originally Posted by divine1966

Absolutely no. Don’t marry this guy neither now nor later. In fact it’s better to stop dating him all together.

Divine makes an excellent point. Just break up. He obviously doesnt care about you. Not only was he hanging with the prostitute, he told you and for what reason? To make you feel bad.

[Nammu]

You need to work on yourself and feeling secure without a man before you marry anyone or donuts will tear the marriage apart.

[~Christina]

Has he suddenly changed ? Or has he been this way the entire 7 years you have been together ??

Regardless of that answer, do not marry this creature, he has no respect for you.

You deserve much better.

if it doesn't feel right, then it isn't right.

do you see yourself 50 years from now with this man?

NO..........

[Blknblu]

nope