Very Special Problem of me.

My wife every time blame me to forget and she said something to do or plan,
But i never recall it if she said.

I really think she dose note said and she just thaought about thing Without sharing with me.

I was never Forgetfull persone before marriage and at leas i have very good track of doing and remembering things.

Is there any Disorder with my wife, I really think she just say thing only in her Mind and do not make them Verbal because i am wundering every time about things which she blame.

What do you think?

Well I don’t know about jumping to her having a disorder of some kind will help things.

The goal is to know what’s going on daily , weekly , monthly???

Buy calendar and you both agree to write activities or appts on it. So if something comes up you just have to look and either it will be there or not , if it’s not one of you forgot. The only person at fault is who forgot to write it down. So that should solve any He said She said nonsense.

I also keep a notepad where I keep a running list of groceries I need, my husband and I just add to the list as we go along.

Good luck

What Christina said.

I'm sorry that this has happened to you! Have you thought about recording what needs to be done and then play it back just to check if that was accurate?

I'm not married and don't have someone constantly throwing in my face when I mess up, I keep a notebook for reminding myself about everything because I have a lot going on, and I will forget.
I'm the only one who has to deal with the disaster if I forget something important. But you have responsibilities to other people, so, I think it's good to find ways of meeting those responsibilities.

How old are the 2 of you if you don’t mind me asking?