Is there any way for us good hearted people to stop getting taken advantage of?

TishaBuv · Oct 13, 2019, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Disney2019

Thanks. I’ve been on the fence with him..I will second guess myself because then he will start initiating contact, asking to see me, etc...but then after I see him we’re back to square one..he’s always putting his friends and everything else firstI feel all I’m doing if making his already huge ego even bigger and he certainly isn’t the end all, so it’s no good. He needs his ego deflated

^This is true.

There’s a bigger picture here for you as to relationships and good points here about how you are predisposed to unavailable men.

But I want to say something about texting. I think texting conversations aren’t a great idea. You should try to keep it to just short, important messages. He probably does get bored with the back and forth and goes silent on you.

Try to save the conversation for the times you are together in person and don’t be overly available.

This guy is probably not right for you and you’ll move on anyway. But add a little mystery and see how it goes. You may be surprised to find him pursuing you more.

Disney2019 · Oct 13, 2019, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by TishaBuv

^This is true.

There’s a bigger picture here for you as to relationships and good points here about how you are predisposed to unavailable men.

But I want to say something about texting. I think texting conversations aren’t a great idea. You should try to keep it to just short, important messages. He probably does get bored with the back and forth and goes silent on you.

Try to save the conversation for the times you are together in person and don’t be overly available.

This guy is probably not right for you and you’ll move on anyway. But add a little mystery and see how it goes. You may be surprised to find him pursuing you more.

He’s not right for me and I don’t trust him. My gut is 100% correct. There’s something not right...I tried to call and it rang for half a second and went to voicemail, and I highly doubt his fingers are that fast to reject a call..he is playing me for a fool.

divine1966 · Oct 13, 2019, 06:43 PM

Disney you kept texting and calling this guy Saturday and Sunday and Monday and he isn’t replying. He isn’t asking you on a date and he isn’t making arrangements to see you. Thats not how men act if they are into you. At some point it has to click that he isn’t interested. He isn’t worth pursuing. Please just let this guy go. There are ton of men out there who would like to date you. But you got to drop this one

Fuzzybear · Oct 13, 2019, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Disney2019

Thanks. I’ve been on the fence with him..I will second guess myself because then he will start initiating contact, asking to see me, etc...but then after I see him we’re back to square one..he’s always putting his friends and everything else first..I feel all I’m doing if making his already huge ego even bigger and he certainly isn’t the end all, so it’s no good. He needs his ego deflated

It's all about him and his ego. He's not worth your time..

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