[Love2019]

Former Lover is depressed right now & has told me she has lost feelings for me & lost feelings for everything. She feels numb & confused about life . She doesn’t even know what she wants anymore. I caught her talking to another guy while this was happening & this was part of the conversation . She start sending him certain pictures to him which was out of character from her because that is not who she is . Of course I love this girl & now she been ghosting me . She reads my messages & still friends on Facebook & still has my number . Before we dated she was in a 2 year abusive relationship & we dated a month after that situation. Our relationship was really close to perfect & everything was amazing . Parents liked me & she liked mine . For first 5 months the energy was there. Our love for one another was strong even working at same job which can be stressful . She always lets me know it’s is me not you . You did nothing wrong & their is something wrong with me . Her depression is a genetic thing & I thought I could help but realizing I’m wrong . Part of me believes that her losing feelings for me might hurt her even more . It just hurt so much because she knows I care about her & she cares about me . We have so many amazing memories together . I truly believe this girl is the one for me & she told me on multiple occasions I love you baby & you mean so much to me etc . I haven’t laughed & smiled like that in a very long time etc. I just need help trying to understand & cope with this issue . We fell in love really fast & just hope when she recovers her feelings will come back & resurface

[Open Eyes]

If she was in an abusive relationship for two years, she may be experiencing delayed affects from that "now". She needs to spend time with a therapist so she can get to the bottom of what is bothering her.

How old is she?

[downandlonely]

It does sound like you two jumped in really fast. I hope you can work things out since you care about each other.

Former Lover is depressed right now & has told me she has lost feelings for me & lost feelings for everything.

"Former" does this mean you two are broken up already? If you started dating her 4 weeks after she was in an abusive 2-year relationship it sounds like you were her "rebound." She does sound like she hasn't emotionally addressed those 2 years with a therapist which would help her get grounded again. Sounds like you two need space from each other.