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Dec 19, 2019, 10:32 AM
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My fiancé always brings up my ex because she sees her at my cousins parties about 5 times a year because they are friend. I am not friends with my ex I can’t stand her. She always brings her up when I talk about anything about other women like online or on the television. She says she always thinks about her when this happens and then we fight. I don’t know what to do.
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Dec 19, 2019, 12:33 PM
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Hi. What are you saying to your fiancé about women online or on tv? I ask because it could be making your fiancé insecure and envious and she associates somehow these conversations with your ex.
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Dec 19, 2019, 01:53 PM
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How is the relationship going otherwise, @Relationship prob? Are things going strong? Yes, Jealousy can be AWFUL! I'd suggest to just talk to Her about ALL of this and see how it goes from there. Hopefully she'll listen and understand that you want to have nothing to do with you Ex anymore! Keep us udated and let us know how it goes! You can even suggest Her to go to Couple Counselling to work out the Issues you seem to be Having! Try to propose this to her, perhaps it will work out! In any case, definitely stand up for yourself in any way you can! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Relationship prob, your Family, your Friends, your Girlfriend and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK, MY BEAUTIFUL, CARING, AWESOME, DEAR, RESOURCEFUL, GENTLE, KIND, SWEET, GENEROUS, SMART, WISE, AWESOME AND WONDERFUL FRIEND!
     
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Dec 19, 2019, 07:10 PM
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From the behavior you are describing it sounds like your fiance really struggles with low self esteem.
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Dec 21, 2019, 04:00 PM
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If he's talking about other women online or on the TV, what is he saying about them? That was my question. If comments are made about other women's attractiveness, for example, that can certainly make a female partner feel more insecure. So I was asking the question to find out what he's saying about other women.
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Dec 25, 2019, 12:47 PM
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Dec 25, 2019, 03:00 PM
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Odd question we’re you dating someone when you met your current girlfriend ?
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