[UCLAFan]

I went to Texas for a week to see my Mom and Step Dad.My mom pretty much verbally abused me and at times scared me.She got up in my face a few times and yelled at me.I have never had a good relationship with her.I have decided to never go visit her in Texas again.Every time i have been around her.Things have not gone well.She treats me like i'm stupid etc.I'm a 37 year old grown women.Been on my own for like 19 years.Speaking of being alone.I'm tired of being a loner.Turned into one a few years ago.Because i got tired of being hurt,used etc.By so called friends.I live near St.Louis and don't find most folks to be friendly.I usally go out a lot by myself. I feel like a loser.When i go out alone.But at times i'd rather go alone.Then hang out with people.I really don't like.

[Rosario]

Hi UCLAFan!!....I'm sorry you are having a hard time...just know that you are not alone!....I can relate to the mother/daughter relationship. My mom however doesn't verbally abuse me. HEr abuse towards me is "her nonapprovement" on how I raise my kids, keep my
house(not perfect like her house), and handle my time. It's painful!!...I know how you feel...you want to connect to this being that made you and brought you into this world. The only concilation I have is that I'm trying to do it differently with my two kids. Stay strong, for life changes and your situation will come around. Hugsssssssssss!!

[AAAAA]

Hey UCLAFan, I know how hard it can be to relate to your parents as an adult. Maybe in the future things will change, but I certainly wouldn't go out of my way and waste valuable time and money to be verbally abused.

[UCLAFan]

Thanks u 2.I wish our relationship would get better.But every year it gets worse.