[Irine]

I have a work...a project for student that i get money for being with a 10 year old girl twice a week for 2 hours each time.

This girl seems to be loving and nice,,but heck..THIS was %#@&#! up,,,,,,,,, she DEMANDS things that are rarely done. liek i took her once to a place called coffeprint and made her phto cool things in phtoshop and printed it. now THIS takes over 4 hours. i have to come to her house, take her and take 2 busses there and back to her house..as well i need to take 2 busses fomr her o MY hsoue.
and she is very slow with her choices...and impationt and RUDE...with me

Now she start calling me...tonought i receave an SMS fomr her and it was at 00:01 AM!! from what i understand.
then in the morning again. on thirsday she calle me when i had a lesson. i SMSed her "i have a lesson) but she continued and said some hting like "you are being...nasty or rude..don`t know exactly how to translate it but somehting like that and i started hetitng tired fop her nonsense and rais my vocie and told her "if you say it again or dare yelling at me agian don`t expect me talking to you!"

I try to explain to her somehting and she never listnes. I say let`s do homework she says she has none. and the employee for the project says they chek the girl`s progress at school. but she says her books are in teh locker at school. So waht shoul i do to make her study and TREAT ME RESPECTFULLY like i , after doing many things she wanted, I DESERVE

Second- I met a guy i didn`t know in the street..really STRANGE thing happened! he sees me and says: "Hey..may i speak to you?"
I jeneraly knwo waht comes after and want to continue but stop and ask ...what he wants he says
"You look like an interesting perosn i sould like to know you better..he was in a hurry told me his name and that he works in a bar. asked for my name i didn`t tell him. he gave me his phone number and told me if i wasnted i coul call him.

Do you think htis is dangerous?

[Perna]

I would sit with the girl one day and the two of you write up how you both want to be treated and how to do that. I'd let her know that you know she has been leaving her books at school and that is not acceptable, she must bring them with her, that is a large part of what you two are working on, not just play. I would make it clear to her you only have a certain amount of time with her each week, that you have other work and see if you can get her to make some goals for her school work and other things she needs to learn like taking turns and conversation, etc. Maybe you can find another pair and the four of you could do something together some times.

Yes, strange men in the street asking you personal information and giving you phone numbers are dangerous. Throw away the phone number. No respectable man would expect a lady to call him, especially since he works in a bar.

[Irine]

Thank you very much for the sugession, i didn`t thikof it..i will try it with her.....

Thank you :-)

[Ocean13]

The girl is obviously playing games with everyone.
I would keep a good notebook about her calls at 1AM plus everything you do for her. How she says she's left her homework at school, etc. Cover your tail. I would use a little 'tough love'. If she doesn't bring homework home and complete it..she doesn't go out to 'play'. She needs boundaries. She won't be happy about it at all. She'll throw a fit. Let her. If she can't handle it & if she tries to make you leave permanently, so be it. It's her choice. She has the 'free will' to make the right decisions. She's very spoiled.
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Guy on the street: Very freaky. I'd definately have kept walking away.

Good Luck

Ocean