[Elizabeth0910]

The pain I am feeling every moment through this decision to separate is so terrible. I do not want the separation, but he does. I can’t stop myself from trying to picture future moments without him. We were outside shoveling and playing in the snow with our 11 year old tonight. All I kept thinking of is that these times are limited and my poor son will not have this at this time next year because his father will be moved out in just a few months. My heart is absolutely broken!

[Open Eyes]

I am so sorry Elizabeth it’s understandable you feel so broken hearted.

It’s going to take time to grieve and heal from this unexpected major life challenge.

[divine1966]

Elizabeth, hugs again, I recall talking to you on a Different thread. Is your husband moving out of the area? Or he’ll be near by? Have you two discussed how is the co parenting going to work out?

[jeremiahgirl]

There’s not much I can say but I will pray for you & family.

[Fuzzybear]

[sarcgeo]

Elizabeth, I was you a while ago. Wondering where I would be, while the ebbs and flows of depression overwhelmed me. Truth is, time makes it easier, but it still hurts. A part of me will always wonder what if we went to counseling? But, she wasn't interested in the counseling. You cannot force another human being into what your heart wants. They must do it willingly.

I realized everything right at the wrong moment. My 7 year old daughter also wants mommy and daddy to get back together, but she will soon realize her wish is only a wish. I would give ANYTHING for one more attempt at what was my family, but remember it takes two to tango. I have heard most people tell it is for the best. But my empty and weeping heart says otherwise.

So, here is my two cents....time does make it a little easier...but even after 1.5 years, I still wonder....what if?

--sarc