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Old Feb 21, 2021, 11:18 AM
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You assume I never struggled with pd traits
You said you had two partners who were "on the narcissistic spectrum". I assume nothing. I just want to make sure that you're aware that people with personality disorder actually do have a real personality - very few with NPD do something about it. That's all.

All of you keep saying word "perfect/perfection". I wont be perfect, no matter what I do. And it's not about impression, or not making a mistake. It's about me being the best I can be. And I won't deny it, I want to be Mr. Smooth - every single time I "did the stunt" in the past, I freaking loved it, and so did she (I know, those were drunk party encounters, but I liked it).

Of course, all it takes is one girl who hates my sarcastic sense of humor and it's all gone, but that's okay. I don't care. It's natural.
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Old Feb 21, 2021, 11:39 AM
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Have you discussed dating with your therapist? Sorry if that's already been asked. I have known people with NPD and don't think they're evil or anything, I just want to draw your attention to the pain you can inadvertently cause others by practicing on them. Your therapist would probably be better at that than me.
My therapist said she's 90% sure I won't hurt anybody. And I agree. I won't deny the fact that I won't be staying for too long, even if it costs me losing a potential parter.
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Old Feb 21, 2021, 12:26 PM
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You said you had two partners who were "on the narcissistic spectrum". I assume nothing. I just want to make sure that you're aware that people with personality disorder actually do have a real personality - very few with NPD do something about it. That's all.

All of you keep saying word "perfect/perfection". I wont be perfect, no matter what I do. And it's not about impression, or not making a mistake. It's about me being the best I can be. And I won't deny it, I want to be Mr. Smooth - every single time I "did the stunt" in the past, I freaking loved it, and so did she (I know, those were drunk party encounters, but I liked it).

Of course, all it takes is one girl who hates my sarcastic sense of humor and it's all gone, but that's okay. I don't care. It's natural.

I have two exes that have narcissistic traits, my parents do , and I worked through my own traits in therapy.

I never used the word perfect.
My only concern was “push it to the limit”.
Just go for it.
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Old Feb 21, 2021, 12:37 PM
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I never used the word perfect.
I didn't mean you. I thought of you only in the first paragraph of my post. Sorry for confusion.
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Old Feb 21, 2021, 12:44 PM
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I didn't mean you. I thought of you only in the first paragraph of my post. Sorry for confusion.

No problem. I disagree with some posters who are going after me for asking what you have to offer so I want to make sure you don’t group me with them. Just live your life. Go for what you want. Don’t overthink it.
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