A question for married long timers

Ketamine infusions. It's administered through an IV in my arm over a period of about 45 minutes. It literally keeps me alive. It's the ONLY thing that controls my TRD.

I texted my pdoc and T that evening and told them.

I am surprised that no one has really addressed this paragraph. Is he aware that you feel this way about him? I mean, essentially he is a meal ticket and taxi service. What does he get out of the relationship? I guess it sort of stuck a nerve with me, because I had an ex like that. It is one of the main reasons why he is an ex. I got sick of feeling like I was being used.


It sounds like your only option is to stick it out until you can find a way to support yourself. What would you do if he left you? You would have to find some way to survive.

I agree with the previous comment that you should try to bring it up at a moment when you are calm to keep things from getting too confrontational.



I have been married 12 years and I'd have to disagree with your statement that, "marriage is more about what you can tolerate than anything else." I certainly don't feel that way about my husband. We actually enjoy being married to each other.

I’m not familiar with the term TRD. For myself , I can’t take much seroquel because I work .

Tough crowd tonight.

Yes,he's aware of how I feel. My intention in that paragraph was to tell all he does for me. I do drive. Just not to the ketamine clinic and back. See if you can drive numb. He's not a damn taxi service.
He gets a wife who would die of a broken heart if anything ever happened to him. He gets an excellent cook and my appreciation for starters. He's my best friend and my soul mate. Yeah, it's not great right now but it's tolerable. Oh, and I gave him his son he always wanted.

Tough crowd tonight.

Yes,he's aware of how I feel. My intention in that paragraph was to tell all he does for me. I do drive. Just not to the ketamine clinic and back. See if you can drive numb. He's not a damn taxi service.
He gets a wife who would die of a broken heart if anything ever happened to him. He gets an excellent cook and my appreciation for starters. He's my best friend and my soul mate. Yeah, it's not great right now but it's tolerable. Oh, and I gave him his son he always wanted.

Is there some service that will drive you to clinic and back? It is good he drives but there are other ways to get around. Many people don’t drive at all and aren’t married. You mentioned friends. Maybe they can drive you to a clinic?

Is there some service that will drive you to clinic and back? It is good he drives but there are other ways to get around. Many people don’t drive at all and aren’t married. You mentioned friends. Maybe they can drive you to a clinic?

You sound resentful towards the other posters? What response would you like?

???

I'm not the least bit resentful. If I don't want feedback, positive or negative, I don't post.
My situation is very, very confusing right now.

I apologize if I offended anyone. It was not my intention and I think it best to close the thread.