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Old Mar 07, 2022, 09:32 PM
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Someone with severe depression couldn't hold down a job & own their own business like she does. It's called setting priorities given the energy level left after working hard all day
Oh I mean if they got to that point they would probably not be holding a job down anymore or not easily
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Old Mar 08, 2022, 06:16 PM
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If they are a romantic couple in a committed relationship (and sounds like they are) why would each be responsible for their own meals and groceries and cleaning? Why wouldn’t they operate as a couple/a team: sharing and doing things together and helping each other? They must cook their own meals, not even cook for each other or take turns or do it together??? If they have everything separate, why even live together?
I missed that. I just assumed it was just a roommate situation.
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Old Mar 08, 2022, 06:45 PM
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I missed that. I just assumed it was just a roommate situation.
Yeah OP said in the original post that they are dating and are talking about possibly taking next step re cohabitating
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Old Aug 15, 2022, 03:23 AM
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No, please.
I have not read the other answers yet
I just don't understand why to even ask
Jo it is not normal imho

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Old Aug 15, 2022, 06:31 PM
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No, please.
I have not read the other answers yet
I just don't understand why to even ask
Jo it is not normal imho

Sorry
Normality is pretty relative!
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Old Aug 15, 2022, 10:53 PM
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Once in a while her friend does her laundry.It is possible her friend runs a laundry business and is paid for it.Family members helping out each other is a good thing.When ever my sister needs ,I go and prep meals for her and kids.My sister is not lazy or inefficient. She perfectly manages her job and family.But sometimes needs help,when she is sick or too busy with job.( She sometimes travels internationally for her job).I derive pleasure in feeding family and friends and cooking is my passion.For some people it is.
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Old Aug 16, 2022, 11:45 AM
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This is so good and nice, @Mendingmysoul!

I’m also a helper and much more with my family, of course, up to the point I can.

I’m not saying that I’m a gregarious person but I like to help when I can. And they retribuye it, even when this is not your motive, they retribuye it you with much more than you gave.
The same with friends, neighbours, etc.
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Old Aug 16, 2022, 03:48 PM
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I am getting spoiled. Was helping my new neighbors & his wife cooked diners & lunches & just sat a place setting for me too. My friend who runs a goat farm has her mom living there & it was so nice to come in after an afternoon of helping her do fencing & have dinner to eat without fixing it myself. My other neighbor does catering & is always saying, hey, stop by & have a bite to eat. Have another friend I go to their home on Fri evenings & I usually bring the meat or the main course & dessert. I love cooking & get very creative myself but nice when I can enjoy other people's cooking too.
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Old Aug 16, 2022, 05:56 PM
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Your post brought a smile on my face.It feels good to read people having each other's back .In this era these kind behaviours are much needed to make the world a good place.
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