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Old Aug 22, 2022, 06:51 AM
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Speaking about closure... I've ended up in a room with this girl, one on one, and we've spoken briefly. As it turned out, she is 16 years old. Obviously she's way ahead of a regular education path since she started earlier (and so she's not 18).

Jesus Christ.
Did she lie to you about being 18?
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Old Aug 22, 2022, 07:05 AM
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Did she lie to you about being 18?
No, I assumed she was 18 because she should be according to the education system.
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Old Aug 22, 2022, 07:11 AM
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Did she lie to you about being 18?
I think he said he assumed she is 18 based on what year she’s in school. These assumptions aren’t usually accurate so I asked several times how does he know for sure she’s 18. She’s in a camp for teens. Chances are she’s not a grown woman. Well turned out she’s not 18. I am not surprised.

So even if she was hitting on him (as he said she did) she’s not old enough for it to have any meaning. She’s a child for all intents and purpose. She is school student. Teen.

Of course some people are still going to argue that even if she’s 16 and he is 27 it’s all romantic and beautiful. I beg to differ. I think grown people should leave school age teens alone.

I am sure big bubba will not pursue her and for that I am grateful.
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Old Aug 22, 2022, 07:28 AM
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Of course some people are still going to argue that even if she’s 16 and he is 27 it’s all romantic and beautiful.
Yeah, I would have been telling stories about this love to my cellmates lol
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Old Aug 22, 2022, 08:04 AM
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Yeah, I would have been telling stories about this love to my cellmates lol
I am glad you have a good head on your shoulders. Good luck with your adventures. Photography and film making sounds exciting and could lead to meeting new interesting people.
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Old Aug 22, 2022, 10:10 AM
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BigBubba, since you found out she is 16, RUN! Do not even go for coffee to chat her up.

For those who posted about the age difference if she was 18 and about the power difference between teacher/student I have a couple of personal life stories to share.

When I was 18 I dated guys in their late 20s, early 30s. I was mature beyond my chronological years. I thought the guys my age were immature little twits. I had no interest in spending time with them.

As for the student/teacher thing, my husband's best friend met his wife when he was her professor in college. They were about the same age. She was a "mature" student. They did not date or anything until she graduated. Y
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