Are any of them actually any good, or are they full of men that think everyone else on there wants to see what they have between their legs?

[divine1966]

I’ve met some strange men in life but no one ever wanted to show me anything lol The strangest men I’ve met weren’t on dating sites. So I don’t think it matters where you meet them. Have high standards. Sometimes some luck helps too

I’ve met my husband on eharmony. I find eharmony to be the safest as if you say “no”, they won’t have access to your profile. I heard that people join but get no matches. I live in a large metro area so I had a lot of matches. Maybe in a rural area you have to expend geographical distance. I wanted a kind man preferably in a nurturing profession. I don’t care about looks or height or weight lol or anything else superficial. The only specifics I needed was “divorced or widowed with grown children with college degree and a full time job”. That’s the matches I got.

Eharmony isn’t cheap. But my husband likes to say “best money ever spent”

Originally Posted by divine1966

I’ve met some strange men in life but no one ever wanted to show me anything lol The strangest men I’ve met weren’t on dating sites. So I don’t think it matters where you meet them. Have high standards. Sometimes some luck helps too

I’ve met my husband on eharmony. I find eharmony to be the safest as if you say “no”, they won’t have access to your profile. I heard that people join but get no matches. I live in a large metro area so I had a lot of matches. Maybe in a rural area you have to expend geographical distance. I wanted a kind man preferably in a nurturing profession. I don’t care about looks or height or weight lol or anything else superficial. The only specifics I needed was “divorced or widowed with grown children with college degree and a full time job”. That’s the matches I got.

Eharmony isn’t cheap. But my husband likes to say “best money ever spent”

According to the reviews, eharmony has really gone downhill since I was last on it.

[divine1966]

Originally Posted by willowtigger

According to the reviews, eharmony has really gone downhill since I was last on it.

Oh wow. I was there awhile ago. It’s a shame

I tried other sites before but found it too time consuming.

I think the positive of dating sites or other dating venues is that you meet people you’d never meet in real life. I’d never ever run into my husband anywhere. We’d never meet if not a dating site

Now some people think dating online is a wrong way to meet people and it’s beneath them or something. But then they are in terrible marriages with awful spouses about whom they complain daily so I’d say what does it matter that they met them irl? Doesn’t make them better husbands!

Oh my daughter met her husband on a dating site and he’s the best husband and father one could wish for their daughter.