My husband took my nsme off our joint account w/o my consent, can he do that?

Not sure about here, but sadly I remember from other forums that mods and admin can do stuff to members simply cause they feel like it, maybe they had a bad day and are grumpy or something

like one forum from several years ago, the staff there banned one member - their reason? she said no to becoming a mod - then when that member they decided to blame willowtigger and punish her - their reason for that? she was offline due to time zone differences, she loged on to the news of that member's departure and a crapload of nastiness from the staff

They are the reason I find it so hard to begin to trust staff on forums

so yeah, when dealing with me they need to follow their words with actions, but not in a traumatic way like harsh stuff

but yeah i'm making myself a trauma again remembering that place

what i'm trying to say is i have more reason than most to miss trust forum staff cause 99% of them on any forum are out to get me, the proof is how i been treated so many times by them

its one place out of several that did me more damage

willowtigger off topic now

Hhhmm looks there is still a thread here you are asking what would cause spouses to do it. It’s still here not removed

There are no staff on MSF. There are moderators and the Doc. They do not Willy nilly ban members or delete posts. The rules are simple and stated. This is a safe site and the rules are to keep it safe.

Omg, I’m sorry to hear about that! I’m surprised to hear that happens here too!

There are no staff on MSF. There are moderators and the Doc. They do not Willy nilly ban members or delete posts. The rules are simple and stated. This is a safe site and the rules are to keep it safe.

There are a handful of staffs dotted around the internets though who are decent people, in my experience they are only a few though

Jesyka is a wonderful person

Hows jesyka today?

There are no staff on MSF. There are moderators and the Doc. They do not Willy nilly ban members or delete posts. The rules are simple and stated. This is a safe site and the rules are to keep it safe.

Exactly. If threads and posts have to be removed, there is always an explanation why. People don’t get canned or posts deleted because mods have nothing else to do or are in a bad mood. The rules exist for everyone’s safety and well being.