[sinking]

Hello,

Im finally coming to terms with my asexuality (again!), but now im wondering about my dislike about kisses, hugs and caresses...

since up to now all those elements had a sexual context, i mostly disliked them all. (making me believe im also aromantic)

but now, thinking about an hypothetical asexual relationship, i wonder if those kisses, hugs and caresses would still disgust me or not.

and in case the still would, then what kind of relationship am i looking for?

a friendship? a "special" friendship?

i still want that someone that makes my heart beat faster when i see him/her (maybe im bi-asexual), that makes my heart burn with enthusiasm about what we are talking about, sharing and fantasizing... but without the physical component, what would that relationship be?
(it could also be a long distance thing, with me shaking at the thought of reading a letter or an email...)

am i looking for a squish without the physical component? does it even exist?

anyone knows what im talking about? opinions please?

[bridgengc519525]

Originally Posted by sinking

Hello,

Im finally coming to terms with my asexuality (again!), but now im wondering about my dislike about kisses, hugs and caresses...

since up to now all those elements had a sexual context, i mostly disliked them all. (making me believe im also aromantic)

but now, thinking about an hypothetical asexual relationship, i wonder if those kisses, hugs and caresses would still disgust me or not.

and in case the still would, then what kind of relationship am i looking for?

a friendship? a "special" friendship?

i still want that someone that makes my heart beat faster when i see him/her (maybe im bi-asexual), that makes my heart burn with enthusiasm about what we are talking about, sharing and fantasizing... but without the physical component, what would that relationship be?
(it could also be a long distance thing, with me shaking at the thought of reading a letter or an email...)

am i looking for a squish without the physical component? does it even exist?

anyone knows what im talking about? opinions please?

It's totally possible to have a deep, fulfilling connection without the physical stuff. the beauty is that you get to define the kind of relationship you want.