So called friends ignored me after I set boundaries. I finally cut them out

jesyka · Sep 02, 2023, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Discombobulated

Great news jesyka!

Thanks. One lady I’ve met 4 times so far is an artist who also had depression, anxiety, and she has also had issues with being bullied too.

She has also has had bad experiences with men too. We also like a lot of the same music & we like clothes, makeup, good food, art & cats. She said nice & easy to talk to.

I told her about these women & she said they’re not my friends & that they’re jealous of me. She’s very smart too. She’s worked with big cats before & autistic kids. She’s going to start teaching neurotypical young kids soon.

AzulOscuro · Sep 02, 2023, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by jesyka

Thanks. One lady I’ve met 4 times so far is an artist who also had depression, anxiety, and she has also had issues with being bullied too.

She has also has had bad experiences with men too. We also like a lot of the same music & we like clothes, makeup, good food, art & cats. She said nice & easy to talk to.

I told her about these women & she said they’re not my friends & that they’re jealous of me. She’s very smart too. She’s worked with big cats before & autistic kids. She’s going to start teaching neurotypical young kids soon.

She sounds great 👍

divine1966 · Sep 02, 2023, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by jesyka

I see your point. However, I’m definitely not a people pleaser. I tried to be accommodating.

That’s all. It became to much though. They took advantage of my kindness obviously. They took me for granted. I then became resentful because they thought they could get away with being picky & controlling.

A fee people told me they were playing games with me to make me squirm to see how much they could get away with for fun even. How sick is that? They might’ve been doing that for laughs.

That’s gross. They admitted playing games with you? Wow

eskielover · Sep 02, 2023, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by divine1966

That’s gross. They admitted playing games with you? Wow

"A few" people told her that, not those people admitting it.....was just an opinion of "a few" people like our opinions of what is really going on here

divine1966 · Sep 02, 2023, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by eskielover

"A few" people told her that, not those people admitting it.....was just an opinion of "a few" people like our opinions of what is really going on here

Oh they said as “suggested or guessed”. I thought they admitted it. I am a little off at the moment.

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