A guy I’m talking to seems to be uninterested in what I’m saying

Before I describe the scenario, I want to get a few things out of the way:

I and the guy I’m talking to have never met in real life. He was pretty much the only person I’ve ever gotten to speak to in weeks. Also, don’t assume I’m intimidating him or hurting him in any way just because of my username.

The guy I was talking to seems to be very polite and friendly so we decided to have a chat together. However my confusions regarding society in terms of media seem to leave him unresponsive. He states that he has never listened to music in the past fifteen to twenty years, so I assume he’s middle-aged.

That I can understand. But what really concerns me is when I talk about the massive hatedom of specific movies which he states that he’s never watched any movies, EVER. Which is strange to me since he had enough money to afford a laptop and might indicate that he’s also paying the bills for his electronics.

What baffled me even more is that he barely even talks about his own life and what he does with it. I’m getting the terrible feeling that he’s not interested in what I’m saying.

To be specific, I’m a nerdy and hypersensitive person. I tend to have a lot of things on my mind, and I’m not afraid to speak about it to the right people. I don’t lash out at anybody unless they speak ill of me or other people.

This is not the case. The guy is a generally friendly person and I’m very nice to him. Yet he states all the time that he’s not familiar with anything I’m saying. It’s so confusing to me. I could understand that if he’s always busy with his family or business or something like that, yet he hasn’t specified any of that.

I can’t help but feel like I’m somehow intruding him. He says he likes to chat but his responses seem to tell me otherwise.