First dates...

I recently placed a personal ad on a gay webpage and got a reply. I've gotten replies before, it's just that this will be the first time i'm going to meet the person that replied.
I just got off the phone with him, and I'm not exactly sure what to do.
I've never really dated anyone before, so I'm pretty nervous.
We spoke for 15 minutes and I'm not exactly sure I know what I'm getting into. I told him that I was a virgin, and yet he still asked me if I top or bottom. (do I like to give or to receive)
I'm supposed to meet him after 5pm on Monday and I don't know what to do. The last guy that replied was a lot like me , same height, same weight, same religion, etc...
While this guy is 6'1, 200lbs, different religion, and very femme.

Any advice? I've got no one to talk to right now, and I don't see my therapist until Thursday.

Aaaaah!!!!

If you feel uncomfortable meeting this person, just follow your insctincts ... judt do not!

Like in the Movie Midnight Cowboy, I use to thumb around America, and at times was picked up by Gay Men, who would pay me five bucks, to give me a head job......I remember once I was at The Super-America Truck in Youngstown Ohio.....Interstate 8o both ways, was shut down, and left traffic east and west at a complete stand still.....I crashed out in the truckers lounge, and fell fast asleep with the truckers, as they watched television.....And when I woke up, I found a note from some guy, he said he would give a head job, and pay me five bucks......I never got my head job, but was given the five bucks.....Only because I wouldn't leave him alone, because he asked me for a date, I didn't want the date as much as I needed the money to get drunk on, drinking made road life easy.......

The Time was during a Blizzard, it was in the early eigties, and I didn't sleep with truckers while watching television, I slept on the floor......I treid to Talk the Hoiday Inn to let me crash out on the floor in the lobby, but they said get out of here before I call a cop.....So I slept on the floor in the truckers lounge, there was at least four foot drifts halting both east and west traffic.....