Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr (husband)

possible your both releasing pent up anger and once fight is over so is anger, thus you both like each other again

Yeah - I can understand that part of it....... but what confuses me is that we will get along better with each other after we have had a verbal argument (hence releasing frustration) - but once the sex is added back into the equation then we start to nick pick at each other / get on each others nerves again.

Example:

Been nick picking at each other.
We seem irritated with each other - word expressed.
We have a verbal argument - now mad at each other - no talking.
We start to talk again - get along well for a week or two.
We have sex for the 1st time since the verbal argument.
We are starting getting on each others nerves, we irritate each other.
I start to think we get along better with out sex in the relationship.

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I just found this in an email my husband sent to me two years ago on our 20th Anniversary......... I cried of course.

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Some one Help ME! - as I cannot stop crying.......

I also found this song - my husband sent to me when I was away from home for a month when I stayed with my sister in Texas after her husband was killed in an car accident.... two years ago - I was still at her house on our 20th anniversary and all I wanted to do was to "Go Home"

http://www.pcplanets.com/mp.php?id=122312

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Rhapsody said:
Man Oh Man..........

I used the "F" word when expressing how I was feeling at that moment.

- I felt a sense of relief after my 1 1/2 minute of anger was over and thru....... wiping brow.

Now - to face tomorrow.

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Shout SHOUT!
Yell it all out
These are the things I can`t do without
Come on....