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May 15, 2008, 01:37 PM
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As some of you know I have had a really bad few weeks lately...
Me and my boyfriend had a bit of a row this morning, so there has been tension between us all day. He's just been on the phone to me crying saying that I 'havent been my bubbly self' lately and that I havent been there for him. And it's true. I've been so wrapped up in my own problems that I didnt realise I was hurting him. I've been really selfish and its been all 'me, me, me' lately. I really wanna make it upto him... I know that I've apologised, but I need to put words into actions and really show him that its going to change. I love him so much, I really dont want this to have to end... can anyone help? Im really desperate, ive never had a relationship before this and Im not sure what to do about the situation babyg xXx
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May 15, 2008, 01:44 PM
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I'm so sorry you're having a rough time. I can tell you that when my husband gets in his "me, me, me" fazes (and inevitibly ends up hurting me!), all I want is for him to say sorry...and show me with his actions how important I am to him, that my happiness matters as much to him as his own does. It doesn't have to be a dozen roses, but the little things, like helping me clean up, and the big things like REALLY LISTENING, go a long way to helping me get over things....
I hope this helps in some little way. XOXO |
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May 15, 2008, 02:31 PM
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x_BabyG_x said: And it's true. I've been so wrapped up in my own problems that I didnt realise I was hurting him. I've been really selfish and its been all 'me, me, me' lately. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> As my hero Forrest would say..."Mature is as mature does"... So I would start with this wonderfully humble line of yours...just like that,,nothing more...Sometimes when we put too much sugar in the mix the cake can't be eaten... Then simply ask him what movie coming out this weekend he would like to see ( on you),,,and then take him...  You are nice to know when you have been wrong... Lenny
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May 15, 2008, 04:22 PM
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I've apologised, but he wanted to spend time alone tonight. I hate feeling like this
I dont know if we'll be ok, and its all because of me babyg xXx
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~ HEY! I run a site on mental health called The Manic Years. I'm looking for some brave souls to share their own personal encounters with mental health. Are you up for sharing your story? Please get in touch on themanicyears@gmail.com. Thank you ~Follow my blog here; http://themanicyears.com Lola Olivia ~ 7/11/11 ~ my reason for breathing Bipolar Affective Disorder type 2 - (2013) 'Borderline traits' Dissociative episodes |
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May 16, 2008, 02:03 AM
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Hey, maybe you can print out this post, thats a start!!!
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