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Old Jun 30, 2008, 08:32 PM
PrettyonthInside PrettyonthInside is offline
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Wow, what a way to introduce myself, right???

Well, i don't really believe in love ... i thought i experienced it once only to have my heart ripped out of me and stomped on ... i don't think it's real anymore ... it's just lust in disguise .... i would give anything to even have my lust satisfied now, and i can't even have sex with the one person i want to have sex with ...

life is so messed up ....

that is all. thanks for listening to my whining.
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Old Jun 30, 2008, 08:54 PM
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There's liking, caring, attraction, desire - many possibilities.
And it's valuable to be aware of what one really is experiencing.
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Old Jun 30, 2008, 09:25 PM
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Funny thing about Love,,,it doesn't care if you believe in it or not...it happens anyway...

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Old Jun 30, 2008, 09:25 PM
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Hi, Pretty, welcome to PsychCentral. I know love, I don't think it has to do with believing though; I've flown in airplanes and I've fallen down but I that hasn't affected gravity any Don't Believe in LOve
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Old Jul 01, 2008, 01:17 AM
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i love the idea of being in love but thats my take on life so far

what dont kill us makes us stronger
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Old Jul 01, 2008, 10:37 AM
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Hi PrettyonthInside, Welcome to PC! Don't Believe in LOve

I'm so sorry you've had such a rough time with your relationship. Don't Believe in LOve

For me, I think that love is a choice. There are people I'm attracted to, but I think that kind of stuff comes and goes based on people's reactions. With love, in my opinion, the person's actions can be mean, horrid, etc, but I can still love the person. But I think a big key is to find out first if that person is a safe person.

But that's just my opinion and I'm pretty dysfunctional so what do I know. Don't Believe in LOve Don't Believe in LOve

I don't think you're whining though. It hurts regardless and I'm so sorry you were hurt. Please keep posting. We'd all like to support you.
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