[I_WMD]

........................I have IMO a unique situation .........................

In Grief and Loss thread I have had a running thread about My BEST Friend >> of 28 years [ been all ways and devoleped to ..... Be there for each other as asked }

I met a peep on-line that we Joke on about >> You sta... errrrrm Checked me out ,,, LOL .

Now I have been in know about longevity for the Best Friend and cancer >> and ....


This in my opinion is the messed up part :

I feel selfish for wanting someone there for me that I can have the continuation of >> " Be there for each other as asked " .

Now these seperated and distance two >> have argued and fussed with each other ... [ drinking by both was involved ,, and this took place in a voice chat ]

Kinda the cool thing is >> they actually have kindness for each others life altering courses and what is to be / come ....

I have found similarities in these most mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?? [ hard word to find ]....Heartfelt Careing individuals .....

I sorta believe as they both express >> " I like her " !!!

My more discombobulated problem is this .....
This Love I have found For My on - line Most awesome in the way of >> mentally stimulateing and knowledgeable on many subjects ... and with the ability to tell me >> aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ,, kinda how I think >> think First >> or take time to re-consider ,, >> Or ,, walk away before feelings are hurt .

Now we have in 7 some months >> had to read each other well >> and decide if the long term was worth the effort ,, considering all encompassed .

Seems the way things go IRL >> we have concluded we get on better than some married couples >> that is for the walk away Or let a sigh out or something >> so that the other knows >> This TOPIC will be addressed at some other time >> just not ATM ...

So here I post in Relationships Forum ........ Reckon what I be asking is this :

As Convuluted as this sounds to I .

Does it * hold water * ....

I TRULEY Believe it Does >> with alls feelings considered and Happiness Taken into account .

And Remember at the beginning of this L OOOOOOOOOOoo N G >>> posting ..
I ,, Feel Selfish .

Forgot One more thing >> 28 year cancer peep >> made an afgahn for the other >> The Labor of LOve .

[AAAAA]

Wmd

Selfish certainly isn’t a word that I would use to describe you. You and D have been through a lot in the past year, hell in the last 28 years! Some things you cannot fix, in fact as you know, by attempting to do so, you are doing more harm than good.

If the three of you have come to an understanding, that’s awesome. If I’ve told you once, I’ve told you a million times you must take care of yourself too! You’ll do no one any good if you crack and all the eggs you’ve been juggling fall to the ground. You cannot swim against the current carrying cement forever. You must stop, rest, feed your mind, body and soul, then continue the course.

Take care my friend and you will see that everything will work out just as it was supposed to.

[I_WMD]

Originally Posted by AAAAA

Wmd

Selfish certainly isn’t a word that I would use to describe you. You and D have been through a lot in the past year, hell in the last 28 years! Some things you cannot fix, in fact as you know, by attempting to do so, you are doing more harm than good.

If the three of you have come to an understanding, that’s awesome. If I’ve told you once, I’ve told you a million times you must take care of yourself too! You’ll do no one any good if you crack and all the eggs you’ve been juggling fall to the ground. You cannot swim against the current carrying cement forever. You must stop, rest, feed your mind, body and soul, then continue the course.

Take care my friend and you will see that everything will work out just as it was supposed to.

AAAAA,,, " sis " I ................ " the work out just as it was suppose to ",,,

The only wish in that category would be ; For some silver to appear in that Cloud that has been hanging out overhead as of late .

Corky.xoxox.

p.s.
I have to know ...? >>>.. How much snow ya got ATM ..

[AAAAA]

Not a lot of snow few feet, it's been very cold.

Can the silver lining not be that you've come to an agreement?

[I_WMD]

Originally Posted by AAAAA

Not a lot of snow few feet, it's been very cold.

Can the silver lining not be that you've come to an agreement?

It would be nice ,, if the Careing, giving, taking time to think of others feelings first , persona I have been around all these years ,,, continues.

And for that to happen twice in my life [ like lightening ] It will be up to me to nuture the seed that Donna has sown ...

WMD.xoxox.





...and I still feel a bit selfish in wanting so much .

[selfy]

dotdot sez cork iz anyfink but selfish

i think its worth it corky, id like to see you be there with someone your so close to.
you deserve a bit of a break to be honest. after everything.

lots of huggles and love for xmas!!!





...and I still feel a bit selfish in wanting so much .
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[I_WMD]

My dot dot knows >> has a bit of a time spelling >> hehe... But Knows what matters fo sho !! .......~ H U G G L E S~ Back ......

Corky.xoxox.