[bananasarecool]

one of my best friends, and one of the only few friends i have left at school has stopped talking to me, because im friends with someone i once *****ed about again. the explanation i got? "see you're on about how much you hate her, then go and hang around with her. its all bullsh*te." and stormed off. and shes been avoiding me since. then i was told that she told someone she never actually liked me nor wanted to be friends with me. she wont talk to me. without her i think i'll lose everyone.
had an unbelievably ***** day today. ended up arguing with boyfriend because i dont believe he even likes me anymore.
just spent the last half hour sobbing into my pillow
and now i dont know what im supposed to do.

[pachyderm]

You mean people never change?

It can be hard, though, when you see someone do something that does not square with your idea of them. You might have to change and enlarge your idea of them. Tough thinking, sometimes!

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by pachyderm

You mean people never change?

It can be hard, though, when you see someone do something that does not square with your idea of them. You might have to change and enlarge your idea of them. Tough thinking, sometimes!

[bananasarecool]

i guess. people say schools for study but without friends i have no idea what im supposed to do with myself.
twas the last day of the term today. she ignored me completely.
im dreading the first day back.

somehow history has a way of repeating itself.. last time this happened (with another girl) i ended up losing all of my friends and making quite a few enemies.
i regret my past, but i just cant stand who i was then. im completely different now. ive stopped *****ing and id managed to regain the trust of some.
now i just feel like im stuck in another rut.

[Doh2007]

I'm so sorry you are going through this hard time. Relationships are hard. Can you think of a different way to dealing with the situation? I guess that's why you wrote the post, huh?

Here's a thought: Maybe it isn't you. Maybe it's the people you choose to have as friends. Is it possible that you are being friends with people who aren't mature enough to have a satisfying friendship with?

Anyhow, I'm sorry you hurt.

[bananasarecool]

thanks for the replies guys.
yeah it is. i just want to know how i can make things right again... im not good with people tbh. i dont know how to make it all right again, how to get her to listen and to apologise
basically to get my friend back over something stupid.

i know.. they are kinda immature tbh. but i find it impossible to make friends. and now idk what to do. im spending my entire christmas holiday worrying about who im supposed to hang round with when the new term comes. its awful...
so does anyone have an idea to get her to talk?
she doesnt have msn and she rarely has credit... so should i just text her or something?
we were supposed to be "best friends"... now idk what to do
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