[mpen021488]

Me an my bf have been goin out for 2 years now and he's always late to go somewhere unless it has to do with him, he doesn't listen to me, I have to tell him things 2 or 3 times untill he gets it,he's immature, he doesn't come see me when I ask him too, sex has become boring, etc. I've talked to him 2 or 3 times about how I felt but nuthings changed. He still does the things that irritate me. I've just talked to hom again because lately I just don't really care for anything in the relationship that much anymore. I don't feel happy in the relationship anymore. Lately I don't want him to touch or kiss me. I haven't been giving him that much physical attention for the last month and a half. And I almost broke up with him last night.
Also I've been hanging out with another guy that I have been working with for a year for about 1 month and have been talking to him about the relationship. Everytime I hang out with this guy I'm happy but the thing is that he has a girlfriend that he just started goin out with. I don't know if I'm feeling this way beczuse of this new guy I'm hanging out with or because I'm fed up with the things he does.

[skymonk]

Sounds like you're ready for a change. You're not being treated the way you want/need to be&you're unhappy. Not a good sign when it's been going on for a while&you haven't been able to get through to him. I know this because I've been in a similar situation. I wouldn't move so fast towards the guy you've been talking to-he's got a girlfriend&you don't want to jump from one relationship to another. If you do that, you'll just be losing yourself&the time to figure out where you went wrong&what you want. Also, you like this guy as your friend, right? If you're having romantic feelings towards him it could change the dynamics of your relationship to something less than what you have now. Also, it's really easy to fall into the "I think I love him" attitude towards the first guy that treats you with a little kindness&sympathy when you've been in a bad relationship. I know, I've done it too many times! Hope this helps. It may be hard, but do what you need to for you to feel better.