[parsifal]

Okay, so like one or two times, my girlfriend has asked me things about past girlfriends, and it has made me uncomfortable because never has that turned out well for me, and never has it indicated innocuous motives. She says it helps her feel like she knows me better or is more connected to me, etc. But I wondered to her why she would need more than whatever she's experienced with me. And besides not feeling comfortable with it, I feel like any time I'd share anything with her, she'd be using that to judge how I am now. I mean, I feel that is unavoidable. She keeps saying it's just curiousity, but then when I say I don't want to talk about whatever it is, she feels like I'm hiding something?

What do you think?

[nothemama8]

Just tell her , I burned all my past bridges so I can live in the present with you. A little corny but sweet too
Welcome to the forum
Angie

curiosity killed the cat...
and it killed a lot of relationships i had with guys.
i was like your chick...
i think you should find a nice way to phrase it and tell her you arent gonna discuss past girlfriends, out of respect for those girls and out of respect for your current girl.