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Old Feb 09, 2009, 04:36 PM
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I know that I shouldn't feel this way....and its not very Christian like but I already have a reserved spot in Hell anyways.....
She emailed me today....her mom just got evicted from her house and she is now living with her in my apartment. She lost her job (said she didnt want to get into how or why) and her mom is still emotionally and verbally abusive (that part i do feel bad about).....she is running back and forth from her mom's place and our apartment trying to figure out what to do with her moms stuff (couch, TV and such) and she was finally served the Property Seperation Agreement Papers....all of this in a week!

I hate to say it....but a part of me is actually happy Karma caught up with her. Does that make me a bad person?????
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Old Feb 09, 2009, 04:39 PM
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Oh and she also thinks she will end up like her mom....alone and homeless.....and i hate to say it....but she reminds me of her mother.....her mom didnt give two ****s about her dad....married him bc she thought "retired military...he has lots of money....."
She is so much like her mother that it is scarey soemtimes.....i guess thats why they dont get along??
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Old Feb 09, 2009, 04:48 PM
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No, it makes you human. We all have moments we're not especially proud of and when people have hurt us, we tend not to wish well for them. It definately sounds like the person she had for a role-model wasn't ideal. Got a lot of her actions and ideas from her mom!
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Old Feb 09, 2009, 06:59 PM
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She is gonna ask me for help (ie financial aide)........my soft heart wants to help....but the other part of me is saying dont do it
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Old Feb 09, 2009, 07:03 PM
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Karma's a tricky thing, taking joy in someone else's suffering brings suffering upon yourself.
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Old Feb 09, 2009, 07:59 PM
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Karma's a tricky thing, taking joy in someone else's suffering brings suffering upon yourself.
yeah thats what i am afraid of .......
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