[myoasis89]

This is what my bf said after I told him how the mexican homestay was treating me. The mexican kept feeling me up and telling me he loved me...I kept telling him i just wanted to be friends...he said I was breaking his heart and that 8 months with my bf was not a long time and that he was probably cheating on me while he was gone to iran for a month to visit his grandmother. I told him several times I don't have feelings for him. I feel horrible about what happened...I thought I could jsut be friends with the mexican because I was lonely while my bf was gone...I relaly love my bf and I'm not sure if he sitll cares for me

Hey,

I told you that you should ignore him!!! .... i know his type ...I am a guy and when I said that I meant it.... I knew that this would happen if you do't put a stop to this sick so called friendsip relationship.... well you built a snowman with him...you went to his school and met his friends ..and you wanted to go to his club (cuz he is trying to find something in common with you) ....there you go , he thinks his strategy is working on you ...he is trying to do more things with you so he can get in to you at the end....... you should have ignored him and didn't care if he gets freaking offended or not.... who cares how he feels ! unless you do ..I don't know....

I do trust you....if I did not, I wouldn't be dating you !! ......in response to his thing.... I would never cheat on anyone!! If I feel a relationship is not working I would end it first ...I would never cheat...

anywho I knew this was gonna happen if you don't ignore him....... well, I hope it works out somehow... I doubt it though... just taking to the landlord is not gonna stop him ....

bye

[skymonk]

Are there 2 people talking here? Even if there aren't, you should never do something that makes you uncomfortable in any way (i.e. it's wrong, you don't want to do it, etc.). This is all up to you-whether to stick with a long distance relationship(which are very hard to do)or to have a fling/serious thing with someone that is supposed to be caring for you. That doesn't jive with me. If the Mexican guy is your caretaker/helper because you're disabled he is assaulting you with his unwanted sexual advances. He shouldn't be doing those things-he's your caretaker-meaning hands off unless required for care. Sounds like someone is messing with not just your mind. Keep it non-sexual&report this guy for his unwanted advances. He's behaving very unprofessionally. Take care of you&make sure that nothing is happening that could hurt you physically or mentally.