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Old Jan 13, 2009, 04:24 PM
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I can't take anymore going through having to work with someone that broke my heart. I'm going to talk to my boss to see if I can get transferred or find something available. This is torture for me and I can't deal with this.. As for a boyfriend, I'll never find anyone. I'll be lucky if I get killed in an accident..
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Old Jan 13, 2009, 04:49 PM
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I'll be lucky if I get killed in an accident..

Nope..not lucky at all...you'll miss meeting that real special person just around the corner...

I know how you feel Deep,,,I had my heart shattered once and I know that your familar with the ache of all aches....

I think your idea is a good one if it can be done...It will be like a new adventure,,new people,,new surroundings,,a chance to put some of this behind you..

Please know that your particular experience is unique and yours,,but that most poetry of the centuries has been written by the forlorn heart...so you are in great company...

And you have us...

Be well,

Lenny
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Old Jan 13, 2009, 05:25 PM
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Lenny expressed it well, your experience is unique but we've all been in your place I think. I do not mean to belittle your pain, but you will get over it. Not today, not tomorrow it may even take years to be able to look back at this relationship without feeling a single bit of pain. But I promise you it will come.

When I look back at my own expience, I remember the anguish I lived with, but to be honest I don't remember why. When I look back now I see a man that was not worthy of my love. Please realize that in the future you'll see this man and his faults and realize you're better off without him. You needed to experience this to appreciate the joy that you will have in the future.

I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way now. A change might do yourself some good.
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Old Jan 13, 2009, 05:27 PM
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Nope..not lucky at all...you'll miss meeting that real special person just around the corner...
Yeah right... That'll be the day... I appreciate your comfort & support though thank you.
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Old Jan 13, 2009, 06:24 PM
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Lenny expressed it well, your experience is unique but we've all been in your place I think. I do not mean to belittle your pain, but you will get over it. Not today, not tomorrow it may even take years to be able to look back at this relationship without feeling a single bit of pain. But I promise you it will come.

When I look back at my own expience, I remember the anguish I lived with, but to be honest I don't remember why. When I look back now I see a man that was not worthy of my love. Please realize that in the future you'll see this man and his faults and realize you're better off without him. You needed to experience this to appreciate the joy that you will have in the future.

I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way now. A change might do yourself some good.
I've been through dozen of rejection from men because I came on too strong, the last rejection was from my friends brother and because of this I'd was heartbroken and lost my friend. And now I'm dealing with this.. I don't want to continue to be friends with my co-worker because I might get too attached to him and get hurt again.
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Old Jan 13, 2009, 08:18 PM
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I'm so sorry for your pain.
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Thanks for this!
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