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Feb 11, 2009, 03:13 PM
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Hey guys....
I dont know what happened....or how it it happened but it did. I think I'm over the soon to be ex. I haven't talked to her in over a month over the phone.....i miss her some....but i dont look at ther myspace or facebook page anymore. I don't feel the need to email her....I've called her to make sure she is ok and she doesn't answer the phone. It seems she has let go too. I guess if I've already let go then I guess it wasn't meant to be. I used to think that her and I would get back together later in life but now its like she is another faceless stranger on the street. I don't have any responsibilities towards her other than to pay the rent, i dont have to make sure she is ok....i dont have to give her any extra money....i dont HAVE to love her...... I feel a HUGE weight off my chest since i have realized this. 
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Feb 11, 2009, 03:30 PM
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wow! Congratulations. I'm sure at some point you'll have your moments, but I'm glad you are able to distance yourself. Please, please be careful; if she stays true to what seems to be her character, at some point down the road, she may start to want the life you had together back again. It may be easy to say now "no way" but please don't let her toy with you. I wish you peace and happiness and strength!
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Feb 11, 2009, 03:33 PM
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Yes, and then I have to answer the question......"Is it worth the risk?" Unless I see a HUGE improvement.....the answer will always be "hell no!"
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Feb 11, 2009, 06:39 PM
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Congratulations, the opposite of love is not hate it is indifference. I'm glad you're feeling better.
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#5
Feb 12, 2009, 12:31 AM
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Oh!!!
Congratulations! I am really glad for you I wish I could post a thread like that too but.... In my case, the guy wanted us to be back together.... I couldn't say no...and I hate myself because of that....I didn't want to be the "bad person" in all that happened, i wanted to forgive him but.....like cantstopcrying said....I feel I am his toy  and now I am living in hell AGAIN. So please, don't make this mistake... It is bad, really bad and hurts. Just be aware. And thank you for sharing this here! It gives me hope that one day I can feel good again 
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Feb 12, 2009, 02:41 PM
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In all reality, the "internet relationship" i have with the other girl made me realize i shouldn't have to put up with all of this stress in order to find somebody that appreciates me. So in a way, she gave me strength
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Feb 13, 2009, 01:48 PM
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wow I am in the same boat. I am finally able to move on with my life and it feels so good...only my ex still calls asking why i gave up on him... but its for the best and i know that! he hurt me too bad for too many years and i finally got strong enough to break the ties and it feels nice. its sad but nice! congrats!
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Feb 13, 2009, 07:47 PM
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Listening to Scars by Papa Roach, and i can actually TOTALLY agree with the song....i am moving on with my life
 
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#9
Feb 13, 2009, 07:58 PM
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In fact I dont even want to see her when I'm home!!
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