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Mar 03, 2005, 09:31 PM
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<font color="purple"> Today I found out that my best rt friend has betrayed me in every way. We had been through this about a year ago, but he came back, apologised and asked for another chance.
How could I be a decent human being and not give him another chance? Now it's happened again. It's literally all I can do to aviod sitting in a dark corner and depersonalizing. By chance I had an appt. with my counselor today. I hoped it would help the pain, but it didn't, even though she is completely awesome. I won't be of much help to anyone for a while., but as my friends, I thought you would want to know. </font>
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Mar 03, 2005, 09:34 PM
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Jan,
I am so sorry! I am certain that almost everyone can relate to being betrayed and I think it is even worse when it is the second time around (I am going through this with my sister right now). I am sending much comfort your way and hope you make it through to the other side of this quickly! Jennifer
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Mar 03, 2005, 09:39 PM
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Jan, just remember not to beat yourself up over this. You did for him what any good friend should do... you forgave. Now that he's done this to you again, it seems to me that there's nothing left to do but cut the cord. He isn't worth your friendship and you know that. All my love Jan...
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Mar 03, 2005, 09:56 PM
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((((((((((((((((((( january )))))))))))))))))))))
i'm so sorry that you've been betrayed. let alone a second time. i feel for your pain, dear. be safe,
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Mar 03, 2005, 10:07 PM
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(((((january)))))
I am so sorry that this happended to you. Jen |
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Mar 03, 2005, 10:43 PM
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(((((jan)))))
I'm sorry your friend let you down. It's too bad people don't see what great friends they have...until they lose them or upset them.
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Mar 04, 2005, 09:46 AM
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My dear friends,
Thank you so much for your posts of comfort and support. I am sitting here crying because you were kind enough to care about me. He has put me in a terrible financial bind again.... I didn't even know he created bills in my name. I have absolutely no proof he did it instead of me, so I have to pay all those bills. The chance of him paying me back is equal to the chance of me discovering an active volcano in the South Pole. Thank you, thank you and thank you again for caring. Jan
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#8
Mar 04, 2005, 10:51 AM
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hey...that's what i meant...no score card...love ya grace
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