My old boyfriend that I just ended things with is driving me up one wall and down the other. I still talk to him... some of my things are still at his place, he owes me a lot of money (he accidentally broke my puppy's leg with a remote contol car back in January) and he's pretty much my only "friend" in Texas... sad, but true. I admit, I just recently told him the full story about my history in regards to the psychiatric issues (his mother, it turns out, has her own demons, I learned) I tried to tell him in the past, he is just one of those types who believes that anything can be conquered by a positive attitude. He expects me to let him know where I am at all times... I called him this morning and went about my business. No answer, so I left a voice mail. I didn't feel like talking... I only have the cell that my mother pays for, and a "short" call with him is a full blown conversation with anyone else. I had things I needed to get done... that I actually wanted to get done. He called 5 times and left 4 messages. I finally returned his calls about 4:30. He apparently thinks that we got back together, and I need to consider HIS needs when I ignore his calls. What the hell? Should I just take the loss on my possesions and all the money from the vet and change my number, or at least block his? I know its not my place to diagnose anyone, but after all the hospitalizations I've been through, he shows some definite traits. Someone, anyone, help or advice?
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