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Dec 10, 2010, 09:40 PM
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My T was trying to build me up as he has done many times.
He mentioned how I held down a good job, that I was good at many things, and that I am not unattractive, or that I am attractive, not that you are a pin up..... Not sure how to take this, we joke around and I laughed, but I dont know that was appropriate for him to say. It did not build me up. I know I'm pretty, but I agree I'm not a pin up at 50, but does he have to point that out?
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Dec 10, 2010, 10:48 PM
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Masimo I would be insulted at that comment. Not that being called a pinup is appropriate either. The comment falls into the category: " You don't sweat much for a fat girl". Just my opinion.. and I tend to look at the negative side of people's comments as they relate to me personally.
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Dec 11, 2010, 08:41 AM
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Well, I think it was in poor taste too. I think he probably had second thoughts after he said it....I hope. He has never said anything to insult me before. I know he finds me attractive, so even though it kind of hurt, I have to let this go. Even with this remark, he generally makes me feel very good about myself. This sounds crude, but I dont think he would kick me out of bed. As much as I'm attracted to him, he's no prize either. So why do I want him so?????? Damn transference stuff.
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Dec 11, 2010, 04:15 PM
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(((Masimo))) I'm right there with you on the transference stuff. Something I'm going through a little bit of myself. 
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Dec 12, 2010, 09:50 AM
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I would have said, "you're no supermodel yourself, you know"
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Dec 13, 2010, 02:56 AM
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