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Old Apr 17, 2013, 12:16 AM
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Did you tell him/her about it. I have a few times but really don't want to get into a discussion with him about it. Did it help if you told?

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Old Apr 17, 2013, 02:41 AM
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Yes, but it was coupled with deep self-loathing, so that part is what we mostly talked about. I couldn't pursue it as far as I think, in hindsight, I needed to for it to be really helpful. It was sort of a phase that passed largely on its own, too.
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Old Apr 17, 2013, 03:26 AM
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My T has stopped doing the thing that arouses me, it would arouse me if any man did it, not just him. But I still find myself being there and dissociating a bit.
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Old Apr 17, 2013, 05:21 AM
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My T has stopped doing the thing that arouses me, it would arouse me if any man did it, not just him. But I still find myself being there and dissociating a bit.
Hm I think it's not that standard to have a thing that would arouse you if ANY men did it. Maybe it could be worth exploring into
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Old Apr 17, 2013, 05:34 AM
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Hm I think it's not that standard to have a thing that would arouse you if ANY men did it. Maybe it could be worth exploring into
Sorry this a thing that any reasonably hairy man would do. I have thing for hairy chests.
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Old Apr 20, 2013, 11:51 AM
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Sorry this a thing that any reasonably hairy man would do. I have thing for hairy chests.
LOL. I've been aroused but not by anything he did physically (unless you'd say his wearing a particular favorite shirt or expression was stimulating ). Oh and let's not forget when he didn't shave for a few days (hold me down already ). Seriously though, it was more emotionally charged for me.

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Old Apr 21, 2013, 02:54 PM
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Yes, but it was purely transference and nothing she said or did
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Old Apr 21, 2013, 03:21 PM
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Yes, I have been aroused in Madame T's presence. We talked about it and in the end it was no big deal. The way we handled the sexual tension was one of the better things about our relationship.
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Old Apr 21, 2013, 03:46 PM
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Yes, I have. Therapy in general is kind of erotic for me, but I think it's the emotional intimacy that causes it more than anything physical. It happened all the time with my first T, years ago, then not with my next 2 Ts. So I guess it depends on the person, though all my Ts have been female. Yes, I've told them about it and we've discussed it.
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Old May 09, 2013, 05:21 AM
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yes, she got up and stretched in front of me. I could see the whole outline of her body and I immediately felt arousal. It was the first time I felt transference if thatts what transference is. later i caught myself looking at her breasts and then I thought" knock it off already".lolol...
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Old May 09, 2013, 07:06 PM
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Yes. She didn't realize she was doing anything but after sitting all day she kicked off her sandals pointed her feet at me and kept kicking her legs up and down. I think her legs were just falling asleep.

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Old May 09, 2013, 11:20 PM
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Oddly, it's his scent. ---No he doesn't stink like a bear ------
It's a clean, freshly washed scent mixed with tweed, old books, something like smoke and vanilla at the same time, and something vaguely body-scented in not a bad way. Very primal reaction in me, animalistic even...never told him though.
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Old May 13, 2013, 05:23 AM
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I've also had a physical reaction in the presence of my new T, but it was nothing to do with him. It was what I was talking about. In retrospect that applies to all my previous Ts as well.
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Old May 13, 2013, 10:33 PM
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Yes. I have told him. He helps me understand that it is not shameful.
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Old May 13, 2013, 11:27 PM
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The process itself has an erotic component for me. I go in there, bare myself, and we spend an hour circling and circling around some sensitive areas, then just when I feel we're getting somewhere, he tells me it's time to go. Help! (But I like it.)
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Old May 22, 2013, 07:46 PM
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Yes. My T rarely wears a skirt, almost always pants. When she does wear a modest, knee-length skirt, it amazes me how alluring I find it. She does that little skirt-tuck thing that modest women do when they first sit or change position. I find myself trying to sneak a little peek when I think she isn't looking at me. If I hear that slight "fart" sound when her skin rubs against the vinyl seat, I can't help but wish that I was her chair.
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Old May 31, 2013, 06:50 PM
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Oh yeah! Trying to work through it, and nothing he has done wrong/ but I am spending the entire hour in a horrible hot mess....... not ashamed/but very frustrated!
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Old Jun 02, 2013, 07:09 AM
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I finally told him about my feelings and getting aroused. he said a lot of things but the one thing that sticks in my mind is he said "I'm not allowed to tell a client i am attracted to them" but he didn't say he wasn't attracted to me either. Then again I didn't ask.
He asked me how I felt when he finished his little speech. I said i was relieved and told him about the psychiatrist when i was 20 and what he did. But I was still a little disappointed that he DIDN"T say he was not attracted to me. I just want someone, who is not sexually interested in me to say I am a good and worthy person and that I am physically attractive. IDK!

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Old Jun 02, 2013, 08:17 AM
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oh yes he is so tall 6'4" tall dark and handsome. I have not told him, nor would I. He is very professional and I would never want to lose him. But inside oh myyyyyyyyyyyyy he is hottttt hot hot!!!
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Old Jun 02, 2013, 09:01 AM
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I finally told him about my feelings and getting aroused. he said a lot of things but the one thing that sticks in my mind is he said "I'm not allowed to tell a client i am attracted to them" but he didn't say he wasn't attracted to me either. Then again I didn't ask.
He asked me how I felt when he finished his little speech. I said i was relieved and told him about the psychiatrist when i was 20 and what he did. But I was still a little disappointed that he DIDN"T say he was not attracted to me. I just want someone, who is not sexually interested in me to say I am a good and worthy person and that I am physically attractive. IDK!
Yeah that would be nice... never happened (or does my mummy count?).
Anyway- his wording could have been better- I'm no allowed to tell a client I'm attracted to them- would raise a heated argument in my session. Just say you're not for crying out loud that's what I need to hear.
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Old Jun 13, 2013, 01:39 PM
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I’ve had a thing for my T for a while now, though it’s gotten less intense over the years.
But today I saw her in a skirt for the first time. Nothing too short, but it did showcase her amazing, tan, long legs. I almost died.
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